Casual sex

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  1. Eris

    Eris Yes please

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    How does one know when they've crossed the line from casual sex to slutsville (or a possible sex addiction)?

    EDIT: IYHO what do you consider to be excessive casual sex? When you hear or see the word "slut" what comes to your mind? What's your idea of an easy girl/guy.
     
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  2. Hunter Michaels

    Hunter Michaels The Real American Gigolo

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    When your conscious tells you? :dunno:
     
  3. Eris

    Eris Yes please

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    I mean I've got a general idea .... just looking for insight from others.
     
  4. Hunter Michaels

    Hunter Michaels The Real American Gigolo

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    To me a slut is someone who has little regard and gets caught up in the moment, and by doing so tosses all consequences out the window. I have met girls that have slept with 15 or so guys and by all accounts are sluts, then there are some who have been with equal but are not. It all comes down to their motives and intentions in the end.
     
  5. Eris

    Eris Yes please

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    Gotcha (ok and I can't believe you still have that AV up!!)
     
  6. Hunter Michaels

    Hunter Michaels The Real American Gigolo

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    why the hate on my AV?
     
  7. Eris

    Eris Yes please

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    I'm not hatin on it... I like it which is why it's the front pic on my myspace page :hsd:
     
  8. Hunter Michaels

    Hunter Michaels The Real American Gigolo

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    changed.
     
  9. Eris

    Eris Yes please

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    :rofl: Aw I was startin to dig you in pink!!!
     
  10. Improvolone

    Improvolone New Member

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    Sluts brag
     
  11. TheAceOfSpades

    TheAceOfSpades New Member

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    not really brag...just like to openly talk about it.
     
  12. ProneToEpisodes

    ProneToEpisodes New Member

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    Totally went on a rampage last summer slept with way to many people no strings attached. I'd like to say I regret it but Im not sure I do. It taught me alot and showed me what I liked and did not like in bed. Now Im alot more willing to try things in bed w/ my bf like IDB. BTW apparently I love rough sex and name calling
     
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    RedVsBlue Penguins > *

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    A slut is a girl that you know you will get sex from, one that requires no work (maybe a few drinks). Also known as a 'sure thing' to most guys. A slut isnt based around a number really, after that number gets high enough I guess that could be taken into consideration. But like was said to someone else, 10 for 1 girl and 10 for another could be 2 completely different circumstances.
     
  14. chica&buddies

    chica&buddies Active Member

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    hrm... tough call.

    i haven't dated anyone exclusively in a long time. i've had one official boyfriend when i was 18. i've obviously been with people since then (reasonable amount for me for 5 years), and i would never call myself a slut. when i was 18, i slept with my bf BEFORE we were actually exclusive, and we'd only been dating for about a week. ya, so i kinda got caught up. anywho... that was 5+ years ago, and i'm no longer like that. i don't just jump into sex right away with guys, but the guys i have been with, i haven't been in an exclusive relationship with. (note: if i am with a guy at a particular time (tho not exclusively DATING), he will be the ONLY one i'm sleeping with at that time. if i have any doubts, i will ask him the same as well.)


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  15. Heinzanova

    Heinzanova OT Supporter

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    I will come out and say it
    I love sluts. Experianced, casual sex with no strings attached. NO relationship/head games bullshit.

    The world needs it sluts as much as it needs its nuns and popes...
     
  16. Eris

    Eris Yes please

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    Thanks for all the input guys ..... was just curious to see how others view this topic
     
  17. BTA

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    When you feel bad enough about it to ask a bunch of strangers on the internet if you're a slut or not.
     
  18. D

    D A guiltless state of self awareness.. The process

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    By the time you get into your thirties numbers are out the window.
    If you change the words in the above paragraph to read 'A slut is a guy' and so on, it becomes completely laughable. Double standards are bullshit. Most men are a sure thing for any woman that they find attractive.
    As long as someone maintains their health, uses protection, & has self respect..Frankly, I'd rather have sex with someone who knows how to do the act well.
     
  19. Eris

    Eris Yes please

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    LMAO .. well first I don't feel bad about anything and secondly .. I asn't asking if I was a slut .. I was just curious to see where others stand on the situation.
     

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