can't get this girl to come

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  1. Kev07

    Kev07 New Member

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    anyone got tips? she told me she only got off twice in her life


    i hit her g spot, nothing

    the closest i ever get is from stimulating her clit, but both my hands were dead sore and she still didnt come, she was shaking and clutching me real tight and all for i dont even know how long, but no big O :o

    she wont let anyone go down on her, thinks its gross

    any tips?
     
  2. CorpseStreet

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    When you say she has only gotten off twice does that include trying on her own or only twice with a partner?
     
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    I'd suggest a toy to do most of the work then use your hands to finish the job.
     
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    She wont let you go down and shes only had two orgasms in her life?


    Stupid bitch is missing out, fuck her. :rofl:, sounds like she doesnt want to O.
     
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    What's the problem? The only thing that matters is if you get off.
     
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  7. Deborah

    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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    Does she masturbate?
     
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    This.

    And also, the fact that she won't let you go down on her because she thinks it's gross might be a sign she's not completely comfortable/relaxed with you and that is going to be a big road block. She needs to be comfortable and she needs to learn what she likes before you can figure it out. Get her a vibrator.
     
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    is she kind of insecure and/or uncomfortable with her body?
     
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    Fuck you! :love: Not that I know what her specific deal is, but some of us have issues.
     
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    there's no such thing as a vaginal orgasm. keep working on the clit.
     
  13. antihero

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    :rofl: uh huh
     
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    yup. notice i didnt mean girls can't orgasm from penetration. but the actual orgasm comes from the clitoris (and possibly the g-spot, which is actually the internal part of the clitoris).
     
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    such as?
     
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    ...soooo you are an idiot?
     
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    Give her a few drinks, turn her around doggy style and go in the back door
     
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    HuskiRuski Cardinal Fan

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    i honestly don't care enough about convincing you of this to argue about it, especially if all the logic and facts are going to be coming from my end.
     
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    Actually he is somewhat right. There was an article in a recent playboy about it but I don't feel like typing it up.

    Basically, the thought that a clit was an undeveloped penis is true. However, it extends back into the body of the female and part of it is thought to be the g-spot. I think the opening line of the article was 'your gf probably has a bigger dick than you." :rofl:
     
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    based on my personal experience, i would definitely believe this to be true
     
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    :roflw: The easiest/fastest way for me to cum is when my boyfriend eats me out. She's definitely missing out.
     
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    this doesn't work for everyone though. only one person has ever been able to get me off by eating me out, and even then, he fingers me at the same time. :o i definitely still enjoy it and agree that she is missing out, but it might not be the missing piece to the orgasm puzzle.
     
  23. HuskiRuski

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    http://www.feministezine.com/feminist/modern/The-Myth-ofthe-Vaginal-Orgasm.html

    edit: that article is definitely written from a feminist perspective, but most of the information is accurate and some of the more questionable theories (esp the last section) are at least interesting to think about.
     
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    Why don't you focus less on making her cum, and focus more on enjoying the sex and making it enjoyable for her?

    Trying to make her cum just puts undo pressure on her making it harder for her to cum.
     
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    who gives a shit... anyone who would say "you know there is no such thing as a vaginal orgasm!!!" and then say in a separate post "buuuuut part of the clit extends into the vagina so you can have an orgasm from putting a penis in a vagina without touching the clit, but thats not a vaginal orgasm" is a trolltard.
     

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