cant get it up

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  1. N8ive

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    oaky
    im a 17 year old virgin

    a few months back (december) me and my g/f at the time were dry humping on her water bed, and i did not get an erection
    weird right?
    we did the same thing a few days later and same problem

    we stopped seing each other before we could do anything again, not because of this tho


    well 5 days ago my new g/f and i were fooling around on her couch (we have been going out a month, i have fingered her a bungh of times and gone down on her, and she has yet to return the favour)
    things got pretty steamy, we went to the floor where i then picked her up and put her on the couch with me in between her legs. she undoes my pants (she was only wearing sweats, with no underwear) i had a semi-erection and i was about to put it into her, when i hear a noise, assumed it was her dad, and i put it away. the noise wsa her dog or soemthing, and my semi-erection was lost

    we went back onto the couch, with me on top, and she pulled my limp dick out, and she attempted to get it up, with no sucess

    last night, same thing, then i made her get up and i lied down, she got on me, couldnt get me stiff
    i tried with my hand while she helped (squeezing tits, playing with herself etc.) but still nothing

    i did get a semi-erection again, but it went away after 5 seconds or something :wtc:

    she finally quit
    it is very frustrating for the both of us



    im pretty sure its cuz of nervousness
    i tried not thinking about it, just watching her play with herself - nothing
    any tips???
     
  2. Zemo

    Zemo n00b of the year

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    It's still in the forefront of your mind. Don't worry about it, don't think about it, just enjoy what's going on.
     
  3. N8ive

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    well

    i read things after the monday thing . . .. dont think about it

    trust me
    all i was doing was watching her while i played with my wang

    if the nervousness/thinking was there THEN, then i wont be able to not be nervous/think


    any other tipssss?
     
  4. 6SpeedTA95

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    Are you in decent physical shape? sometimes problems becoming erect is a result of poor cardiovascular health? You're only 17 man, probably shouldn't be playing with fire like that...
     
  5. NeedGTI'02

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    It is b/c of your nervousness - trust me - and please be safe - use a condom
     
  6. N8ive

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    im in pretty good shape

    actually today i ran 10K in an hour
    not the greatest time, but i didnt stop, and that says something


    OK, i already said its probably cause of nervousness

    any tips on how to get around it?
    or through it, i dont care
     
  7. N8ive

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    will jacking off more help?
     
  8. citizen erased

    citizen erased jailbait tested, milf approved

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    jacking off can sometimes deterriate that...

    i didnt get fully hard when i tried to have sex, but after a week, i went over to my girlfriends house -- not expecting sex, and was able to get hard and fuck her :bigthumb:

    the key thing is, don't think about getting hard, that kills your wood, infact -- don't even think in your head about having sex, that seems to work better
     
  9. 3Bar

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    yes, and before you know it, you will pop wood like a pornstar.
     
  10. N8ive

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    really??

    because u shouldnt give bad info if that isnt true :nono:


    hopefully it is

    is it?
     
  11. DagoRcR

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    When it's happening:

    You are a porn star. Just imagine it, get your confidence up.
     
  12. Ameter

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    the more you jerk it, the harder it'll be to get it up
     
  13. N8ive

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    yea?

    two theories i guess:
    - dick gets used to being hard via jerking it a lot
    > it gets hard a lot

    - you deprive dick from getting hard too much
    > it gets hard any chance it gets
     
  14. Ameter

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    speaking from experience, the less i jerk off, the easier it is for something to turn me on
     
  15. FalkorYo

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    I dont know, I jerk daily even if I have sex. I guess Im a cronic masturbater in that aspect but I also get at least 10 errections a day.


    try peeing befor hand next time. It's helped when I couldnt egt fully staffed befor.
     
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    you take any meds? adderoll and antidepressants can do that.
     
  17. lif

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    I'd say from my experience, the less i Jack off, the more horny i am, try not jacking off until the next time you see her, I guarantee you'll get a big one.
     
  18. 6SpeedTA95

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    :werd: my woman lives a couple hundred miles away, and three or four days before I go see her, I dont wackit...simply because its wayy better and way easier to get it up if its been a few days.
     
  19. N8ive

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    i dont jack it a lot

    if i do, i dont cum everytime

    everytime this has happened, i didnt cum for a few days beforehand


    should i just stop with the playing with penis, or should i do it more often>?
     
  20. Ameter

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    just stop, it's more fun when you havent cum for a while anyways
     
  21. I Pwn Noobs

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    same shit happened to me
     
  22. N8ive

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    im not gay

    i have been jacking off every night and even morning if i can

    i use my imagination to get me 'half-way there' so im not so dependant on physical
     
  23. citizen erased

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    like i said before, don't think about having sex, and you'll be fine

    because when you think you're gonna have sex, you're expecting it to come up all the time, or thinking it to get hard... you want to avoid that
     
  24. N8ive

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    yea

    i think from now on, ill have the mindset that we will be sandwiched inbetween her parents or something, so nothing CAN happen
     

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