cant get it up problem. . . .

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  1. hottieeasian

    hottieeasian New Member

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    So me and this guy have been seeing each other for a while and had recently tried to do the deed for the first time. . .
    But the problem is he cant seem to keep it up, well he can but cant keep it up. we've tried for the past few days and the same result has happened. Whats the deal?
     
  2. stormywaters

    stormywaters Tornadoes are just wind...

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    Virgin?
    He's nervous.
     
  3. nerd9

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    :werd: on the nervous part, i had some problems with this new chick i'm seeing because i wanted to impress her so bad :wtc:
     
  4. hottieeasian

    hottieeasian New Member

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    thats what i'm thinking but who knows
     
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    If hes a virgin, its probably nerves getting to him.. I mean, when I first lost it, I was rock hard, actually lasted quite sometime which surprised the hell out of me as well and my girlfriend had thought that I had to be lying saying I was a virgin.. go figure.

    But anyhow, some guys do get nervous and can't get it up for w/e reason, mental block or whatnot.. but not to be rude, could it be that you're not attractive enough to him? that can help.. or may be you're not working him sexually enough to get him going.. rub his cock, may be give him a little blow job for awhile.. that should help!
     
  6. hottieeasian

    hottieeasian New Member

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    well i dont know he's leaving for college saturday so i think it may have to do with that
     
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    123yenxtc New Member

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    He's not old so it's probably performance anxiety. BTW, a guy who can't get it up and/or keep it up can still have an orgasm.
     
  8. HuskiRuski

    HuskiRuski Cardinal Fan

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    way to sneak that in there, casanova.
     
  9. GRocks10

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    Hey now, its the truth though. lol :fawk:
     
  10. stolid_agnostic

    stolid_agnostic One who is both stolid and agnostic. Get a diction

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    I actually wasn't able to cum for about my first 2 years of having sex. i think i was not relaxed enough for it or something. it literally didn't feel good to have sex, there was no pleasure from it so I didn't go up to the point of orgasm. then I had a relationship in which I was comfortable and it began to work and I never had that problem again.

    maybe something similar is happening to OPs bf
     

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