Can't get G/F (virgin) to orgasm

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  1. Austinite

    Austinite New Member

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    Keep in mind, my g/f is a virgin. There are times where I will be fingering or giving her oral and she will be so into it for about 10-15 minutes. I know she's into it, cause she starts squirming/breathing heavily and playing with her tits. Then BAM!!! All of a sudden, it just goes away. She doesn't cum/scream or nothing. She just says that the feeling went away and a few times she gets the sensation to pee. The first time I fingered her, she asked me to stop because it hurt her and she felt soreness for about 10 minutes. Before fingering her or giving her oral, I do alot of foreplay (massaging, sweet talk etc.). So what's the problem...
     
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    the sensation to pee is a prelude to the orgasm I think.

    As long as you're both having fun, I wouldn't really worry about the lack of climaxing.
     
  3. Vailripper

    Vailripper Daywalkers have feelings too.

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    The pee feeling comes just before an orgasm. According to the sticky at the top, it is impossible for them to actually pee, it just gives her a similiar feeling. Let her know that. ;)
     
  4. Austinite

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    Yeah you're right..thanks
     
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    just hit that little rough ciruclar thingy in her beef curtain, then all hell breaks loose.
     
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    some girls just arent able to orgasm, that doesnt mean that they dont enjoy it
     
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    saxman Burninating the peasants

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    if by some, you mean a whole hell of a lot, especially in the age group that's likely to be a virgin


    find out if she can do it herself, then work from there
     
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    The peeing sensation is the key, at this point she's tensing up, you need to further relax her when she feels this sensation and let her know its ok to go with it, and just relax, continue stimulation and baam, sooner or later; depending on her arrousal.
     
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    I do appreciate everyone's advice. I still don't get why the feeling would just go away for her out of nowhere. Over the weekend I worked on it and followed the advice, but still. She'll really be enjoying it and then she just stops (maybe after like 10 minutes). I ask her what happend, and then she just tells me it feels really good and she's turned on. But then she doesn't feel it anymore. And I stop, wait a little bit (10-20 minutes), and then go at it again. What could this be....what causes her to just lose "feeling/pleasure" all of a sudden....
     
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    dude....I have the SAME exact problem that you describe with my SO...seriously, if i was going to write a post on it it would be just what you wrote. Im looking for an answer too.
     
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    I think this is fairly typical for the girl that has never achieved orgasm.

    Either they need to do it themselves and "learn" how to orgasm, or they need to relax as much as possible when they get the pee sensation.
     
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    it sux doesn't it. sometimes i feel that i'm not pleasuring her, but she assures me that i am. she even joked w/ me about going to see some kind of a sex counselor :rofl:
     
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    Yeah it does suck.,...she'll be all excited then boom...nothing. I told her its normal ( the pee sensation) but I still think shes nervous about it cause she was like well what if it gets all over you? I said I didnt care but I still think shes too self consious about it
     
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    At times, it kills the mood. For awhile there I thought she was faking everything. I'll keep you posted if I come to find out some sort of solution. If you find something that helps too, let me know...
     
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    Will do...but right now shes away at college and will be back in 3 weeks so until then nothin I can do
     
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    can we get more info...i'm going through the exact same thing
     
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    Practice makes perfect:big grin:
     
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    Trust me, I practice on her
     
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    I do too but still nothing...it'll be all good then boom....its gone. so damn annoying
     
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    Patience is the key. It'll also help to assure her that its not a big deal, but that you will keep on trying. Eventually she'll get there.
     
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    yeah I think you are looking into it too much and disecting it.. and its prolly making her uncomfortable.....

    just go with the flow........

    stop asking so many questions and go for it....... do it to it
     

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