***Warning...ALOT to read*** The story... I'm 25 and in a serious relationship with a 40 year old and she has a 5 year old. Been dating for 1 year 4 months. I got tired of her daughter disrespecting her almost everyday. Told her my frustration and lost my respect for her. Been giving her suggestions on how to not take it from a 5 year old turd but she still doesn't try and be a responsible parent. I could step in but why is it my responsibility to correct the mistakes of the mother and the lazy ex-husband? So here's where I'm stuck... Pros: 1. I love her but I'm using my head to think things through 2. We actually talk and have good conversations 3. Our humor keeps our relationship young 4. Sex is 8 out of 10 5. She licks my balls good 6. We've worked through alot of problems 7. She understands my hobbies and respects them 8. Never had a woman love me as much as she does 9. She appreciates my affection and attention Cons: 1. Not a strong minded person, had issues in her past 2. She could be more open minded 3. Not the smartest 4. No strong talents and a bit clumsy 5. Her age is showing 6. Doubt having a family with her cuz of the age 7. My parents will have a hard time accepting her 8. Pointy elbows 9. Her morals/discipline needs tweaking Yesterday after I walked away after lunch with her and did not say my "I love you" she wrote me a letter.... http://i70.photobucket.com/albums/i112/riceahoy/img010.jpg (pg 1) http://i70.photobucket.com/albums/i112/riceahoy/img011.jpg (pg 2) http://i70.photobucket.com/albums/i112/riceahoy/img012.jpg (pg 3) http://i70.photobucket.com/albums/i112/riceahoy/img013.jpg (pg 4) http://i70.photobucket.com/albums/i112/riceahoy/img014.jpg (pg 5) Help me OT and I've already wasted my voice talking with friends and a few clients.