can't cum

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  1. stolid_agnostic

    stolid_agnostic One who is both stolid and agnostic. Get a diction

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    well....I think that most people complain about cumming too fast...

    I almost never cum....and I have to focus with all my might (even ignoring whoever I am having sex with) to get there

    it's a lot of work and generally doesn't bring much pleasure, so I kinda am no longer much into sex....

    has anyone ever heard of a scenario like this? any advice?
     
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    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    How often do you masturbate?
     
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    stolid_agnostic One who is both stolid and agnostic. Get a diction

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    a few times a week, generally...I am not one of those who can do it like 5 times a day!
     
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    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Yeah, I only ask because this problem is really common, at least here in the Vag it is. These are some similar threads.
    http://forums.offtopic.com/showthread.php?t=3498518
    http://forums.offtopic.com/showthread.php?t=3537448

    If you are able to orgasm during masturbation then the problem is mental. Why you can't seem to cum....:dunno: At this point it's most likely not feeling good because you are worrying and thinking about not cumming and it's making you almost dread not orgasming.
     
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    stolid_agnostic One who is both stolid and agnostic. Get a diction

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    hi love, it has been so long! I live in argentina now and getting my masters here! how are things for you? you moved from seattle, right?

    kisses!
     
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    i think that you are onto something! I will look at the other threads. thanks a lot!
     
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    there is no such thing as Pho in argentina! :wtc:

    yeah I am sorry about that myself. we were both so busy! life is much slower here, you spend most of it with friends rather than work work work, it's really quite nice!

    you happy to be back in VA?
     

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