can't cum with girlfriend?

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  1. mikerpiker

    mikerpiker Wicked Individual

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    i'm taking effexor, which i think has made it harder for me to cum in general, but i can still have an orgasm when i masturbate.

    when we have sex, though, it's just like.. nothing. :naughty:

    i'm going to see my doctor about getting off the medication, but i was wondering if anyone else had this problem the first few times they had sex (i was a virgin up until about a week ago).
     
  2. HuskiRuski

    HuskiRuski Cardinal Fan

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    i didn't come the first 2 or 3 times i had sex.

    i'm not a doctor, so i can't say for sure why you aren't coming when you're with your gf, but my guess is that it has much more to do with that you're just new to sex than that the medicine is keeping you from doing it.
     
  3. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Oh lord, you're brand new to sex! It's not the movies, not everything is perfect for a while. It could be the medicine, and I'm glad you are going to talk to your doctor....but it's not the meds :uh: Cut down on the masturbating (if you do it a lot) and calm down.

    Read the sticky and these threads newbie:
    http://forums.offtopic.com/showthread.php?t=3431817
    http://forums.offtopic.com/showthread.php?t=3498518
    http://forums.offtopic.com/showthread.php?t=3356336
    http://forums.offtopic.com/showthread.php?t=3480324
    http://forums.offtopic.com/showthread.php?t=3537448
     
  4. Drunklands

    Drunklands New Member

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    Are you shooting blanks or not ejaculating at all?
     
  5. chlywly

    chlywly Active Member

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    Usually orgasm is all in your head...... unless you feel a lot less sensation.
     

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