Can't cum from sex :wtc:

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  1. Fire Sauce

    Fire Sauce New Member

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    It really makes the poor girl feel bad. :hsd:

    For whatever reason, I can't get off unless I'm doing it myself. Do I just need to stop :wackit: for a few weeks?
     
  2. teo

    teo . => ? => !

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    If you're so used to your hand that you can't cum any other way, then yes, you probably should stop jerking it for a while.
     
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    red97gst New Member

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    this is a problem you've always had?
     
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    Your hand can apply more pressure than a vagina. You have to resensitize the penis basically. You can do this by basically getting yourself aroused my only using your finger tips to caress and even masturbating this way.
     
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    Dan-blackline Registered Sex Offender

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    I'm like this as well, but it's mostly my fault I think as I put myself off finishing until my girlfriend has, and then if it sounds like she's gonna orgasm again, I put it off and by then, I find it hard to finish after.
     
  6. isaac86hatch

    isaac86hatch This thread sucks

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    what he said^^^^^. once you get over the first "hump" of almost cumming, and keep putting it off, it can be even harder to cum after the girlfriend gets hers. i have also had trouble cumming if i had to go pee before we started having sex. but what that translates into is lasting longer, and being harder than ever. heh. and when that happens, after i cum im still hard as a rock and can keep going if we decide to. i usually dont soften up til after i force myself to go pee. i tell ya its a vicious cycle.
     
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    Dan-blackline Registered Sex Offender

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    Yeah, I'm the same, I can last forever in the mornings because of that.
     
  8. MissKitty

    MissKitty If squats were easy they'd be called 'Your Mum' OT Supporter

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    Tried being on top almost as if he is the bed and you are playing with yourself?
     

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