Candles in the single guy's bedroom

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  1. ElChupacabra

    ElChupacabra we should have fucking shotguns

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    So I haven't been single in a long time. I'm redoing my house and right now working on my bedroom. Are candles in a single guy's bedroom ghey, or are they acceptable? I don't mean tons but say 1-10. The 2-3" dia type. Mostly curious what a girl would think when I brought her home, not for any other reason. Personally, I love the smell of a good candle.
     
  2. MattThom01

    MattThom01 New Member

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    if you like the candles, keep them. And come on, if you've already got the girl going to your bedroom...do you really think she is going to worry about some candles?
     
  3. ElChupacabra

    ElChupacabra we should have fucking shotguns

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    I asked because one I respect just told me it was ghey.
     
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    lauren Active Member

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    1-10 implies several clusters. personally, i think more than one grouping/setup is overdoing it, regardless of sex.
     
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    i have 5 in my room
     
  6. ilearned2talk

    ilearned2talk herro prease

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    Omg, you're one of those single-guy-candle-people. I hate those.
     
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    Adding personal touches to a home implies that you see it as your home, and that you take some sort of pride/responsibilty in it. It isn't just a flophouse to you.
    I probably wouldn't even notice candles, but if I did, I wouldn't think they were 'ghey.' I like a man with some sense of style.
     
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    big difference between 1 and 10. i would say keep it to 4 or less.

    1-4 is great though. ive got two and use them frequently. They smell nice and make great lighting, why not have them?

    though 10 is a bit much
     
  10. BornToFly

    BornToFly New Member

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    If you want candles in your bedroom, you should have candles in your bedroom, no matter what a women or anyone else thinks, if they are weirded out by it, they aren't worth it.
     
  11. jackjohnson

    jackjohnson simple as something nobody knows OT Supporter

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    I'm a candle guy, I don't give a fuck. I always have one burning and enjoy buying scents. It goes well with my personality I guess. All my friends made fun of me for it but now they all have a candle or two on their desk :greddy:

    although I haven't been laid in a really long time so take it for what it's worth.
     
  12. Figori

    Figori Taking BRC to the EXTREME. OT Supporter

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    Before I started dating my wife, I had candles (5-8) and it didn't freak her out the first time I brought her into my room. Mind you, I don't light all of them at the same time. And I'm a cherry scent kind of guy. I can't get enough of those things. My mom even bought me a candle warmer so I wouldn't have to light them in the house... Of course, I'd just leave the warmer on and have that nice smell. Much better than the musk of my work shoes... Ugh.

    Cliff Notes: So not ghey.
     
  13. cd7

    cd7 how troublesome

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    lol i have a shit load of candles. they are not gay. i use it whenever i smoke inside my apartment, either cigarettes or :420:

    but i wouldnt just light them up when i have company over, i just use them to mask the smell. also i got a shit load of glade air fresheners, 1 for every room. smells good
     
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    girls love the candles
     
  15. ElChupacabra

    ElChupacabra we should have fucking shotguns

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    thanks for all the responses. Candles it is. Now to get the girl. 0 for 2 on getting numbers today, 1 bf, 1 husband but separated and not wearing ring.

    edit: 15 years outta practice at this...sucks.
     
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    I have many candles in my bedroom, and I light them anytime I'm getting intimate with a girl... the flickering relaxes your mind and body.
     
  17. Jack Horner

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    candles are cool, man...do your thing
     
  18. Kinks

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    "ohh fuck 5 candles... i'm climbing out the window when he goes to the bathroom"


    :mamoru:
     
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  20. ware_ru

    ware_ru I know, I know, I'm amazing

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    Those are called excuses. Could be lies, too. Usually means you fucked up. Check out the sticky and good luck
     
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  22. DrDickAction

    DrDickAction She needs more of ze punishment!

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  23. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    If I walked into a guys room who had a lot of candles I'd assume he bought them to impress girls.
     
  24. antihero

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    i strongly disagree. obviously there is always room to improve, but just because he ran into two of the wrong girls at the wrong time does not mean he fucked up.
     
  25. k0in b4hd

    k0in b4hd New Member

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    buy one yankee candle. they smell great and you can claim you light it up when it smells.
     

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