can you have a threesome and still be 'normal'

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  1. SovietRussia

    SovietRussia What? You pooped in the refrigerator? OT Supporter

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    the girl i have been seeing, well i ended up having a threesome with her and a girl she works with. alcohol was involved. she told me it turned her on to see me fucking the other girl. is there any chance of still having a 'normal' relationship with girl one? she doesnt seem like the type to be having threesomes.
     
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  3. Ms. UnderStood

    Ms. UnderStood New Member

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    No, she will probably call you only for sex, I don't think she will want a real relationship, 'normal' fat chance, if she was drunk she probably don't think about things first, has she talked to you about the threesome?
     
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    No, it's impossible. She's subconsciously sabotaging the relationship. It won't be normal with you two ever again, because you weren't monogomous. She's trying to tell you that she doesn't see you as long-term relationship material, and you should probably view her that way as well.
     
  5. SovietRussia

    SovietRussia What? You pooped in the refrigerator? OT Supporter

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    no, we kinda had one already before with one of her friends. its only when she is drunk we get into the freaky deaky stuff. otherwise we usually just have sex. :o
     
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  7. HuskiRuski

    HuskiRuski Cardinal Fan

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    you two don't have a future together. and if you foolishly decide to go on with this, i'm willing to bet my house that one of you will cheat.
     
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    This is a situation that you will have to figure out yourself. I don't believe this instantly disqualifies her from staying with you. I've had a few threesomes with my fiance and things haven't changed a bit. I've had threesomes with my ex-wife, and you can probably guess how that turned out.

    I think it all depends on (1) how mature she is (2) how *little* you talk about it or the other woman and (3) how you two are together. If you bring it up in a way that makes your current GF feel like you like other women, you're doomed.

    Me? I wouldn't mention it. Just let things happen. If you start to see red flags, though, such as her spending "quality time" with other men/woman *without* you, then you have a problem. If you only engage a third person when the two of you are present, I think you're better off than you know.

    What's wrong with crazy sex? Nothing, at least not as far as I can tell. And I guess the only thing I could add would be "I'd rather do it than not, and regret not doing it." :bigthumb:
     
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    was there any girl on girl action?
     
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    From what I've heard, it pretty much ends most relationships.
     
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    depends.....threesomes are not for everyone....and they can wreck relationships, but that tends to be because of jealousy and so forth. So I don't think that you can blanket things and say NO it wont' work...but the best advice I would tell you is to TALK TO HER...and see what she thinks
     
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    Sex can save or destroy a relationship. Best thing to do is not to ask us, but your SO. Talk it out.
     
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    joecoolinatl Certified Boobologist

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