Can you ever figure women out?

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  1. Killuminati

    Killuminati New Member

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    Is this even possible? I thought I had this girl completey figured out I was with her 2 years and uhh no she threw me for a loop. :ugh2:
     
  2. 3DimesDown

    3DimesDown New Member

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    I can usually get them 35% figured out.
    Otherwise, they're all a bit schizo it seems.
     
  3. Killuminati

    Killuminati New Member

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    Yeah man i thought I had this chick 95 % figured out....
     
  4. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    There's probably a question someone should ask you.
     
  5. egoa

    egoa I R is on Canada Road Trip

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    Close your eyes and imagine the largest train wreck in human history. Now, blow that up with C4. THat was my worst analogy yet. NO, U cant do it. Anyone who says they have, are being played.
     
  6. MattThom01

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    Normal, mature, sane women can be mostly figured out.

    Lying, deceitful, manipulative, user type women (like the royal train wreck you got yourself involved with) can't be figured out.

    Killuminati:

    Stop dwelling on this woman. IT'S OVER. You need to move on. We all told you way back when you first started pursuing her that it would not end well. IT NEVER SHOULD HAVE EVEN STARTED.

    However, since it's done, leave it alone.

    Start meeting other woman. Raise your standards. Work on improving yourself. The fact that you got into that whole situation tells us that you need to do a lot of work for yourself.

    So...

    Ask us about figuring yourself out before you start worrying about figuring out others.
     
  7. Killuminati

    Killuminati New Member

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    I know it was wrong to get with a married chick and I knew it would not end well but I didn't think it would end with her fucking me over. I would rather her husband walked in on us than her fucking me over.
     
  8. MattThom01

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    This is why you have probably lost a lot of respect. Come on man, you knew it was wrong, and you knew it would end badly...but you still did it?

    Honestly, that makes me question the point of any of us giving you advice.
     
  9. MissKitty

    MissKitty If squats were easy they'd be called 'Your Mum' OT Supporter

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    I am one of them and I have no idea how the majority of them function
     
  10. Toda Party

    Toda Party .....

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    Women can't figure themselves out.
     
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  12. Killuminati

    Killuminati New Member

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    I knew I would be hurt if I got atttached and I accepted that. But I didn't think she would fuck me over. I could have respected her if she really tried to work shit out with her husband.

    Of course I knew it was wrong she was married. I know it sounds stupid, but it just felt right. I know we really loved each other. I knew she would not leave her husband I was a very empty person at the time and so was she. We made each other very happy for a while. But yes I knew it was wrong on her husband.
     
  13. DTR rex

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    I thought I had women, their thoughts, and their intentions pretty figured out for a long time. Then, I found out I was seriously wrong :rolleyes:
     
  14. NCS

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    yes they can be, but you have to forget everything you know and have an open mind to start learning
     
  15. ednorthwood

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    Sure. But these types, essentially, just dont exist.

    First and foremost, fellas, women do not think like men...and going at the situation from that angle is completely useless. You all know that women, in general, are emotional beings--which, I think, makes them inherently 'unstable' when it comes to relationships... As such, nothing really suprises me anymore.

    Pretty ironic that the best way to deal with the highly-emotional gender, is to have no emotions yourself.
     
  16. lauren

    lauren Active Member

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    wait, you expected her to treat you differently? :rofl:

    her behavior seems pretty consistent....
     
  17. kiri

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    i think most people are pretty hard to figure out. guys and girls that have emotional problems are unpredictable and strange. when you find someone that's simple and happy, there's not as much to "figure out" about them.
     
  18. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :bowrofl: You deserve your hurt and confusion
     
  19. Jimeigh

    Jimeigh Every rook and jay in the corvidae have been raven

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    ive been all over the world, except for europe and africa... and south america. let me tell you what ive learned about women. women are a complicated bunch. here, let me give you an analogy: women are like grapes.

    i say that, because i used the word bunch, and so i thought of grapes. now, if i said something like "women are a coplicated GROUP..." ah, shit. i thought of grapes again.

    see the thing is about women, is that they're insane. they're insane. you put them in a room together, and they'll all go insane. they're like animals. they eat their own.
     
  20. chlywly

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    After 10 years of long term relationships, dating and friendship I can finally say, I am beginning to understand them, you will never figure them out, but you can understand them, understand that they work on a totally different wavelength, called emotion/intuition... Keep it that way, respect it, ying/yang work together, dick/dick don't mix.
     
  21. Jimeigh

    Jimeigh Every rook and jay in the corvidae have been raven

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    what are you, some kinda homophobe?
     
  22. poweraid

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    :bowdown:
     
  23. ///M Pilot

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    How you can still come on here and expect to gain sympathy is simply bewildering to me.
     
  24. Killuminati

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    Didn't say I wanted sympathy man.
     
  25. keysmachine

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    wondering this is like trying to figure out the meaning of life.. it just is and that's all we need to know. However knowing how people work could be a lot more helpfull
     

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