LGBT Can you analyze for me this guy?

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  1. Squall

    Squall New Member

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    I'm a 20 year college guy (straight) and I'm facing difficulty dealing with my friend (a guy) who is about 19 years old. We've been friends like for 2 years. Sometimes, this guy talks to me and sometimes he doesn't just for no reason at all. There was a one day, we talked and laughed together just like any other friends do, But on the next day, when we were with a bunch of people in the university, he didn't look at me at all and he acted like he doesn't know me though I was very close to him!! he made it difficult for me to say hi to him. this has resumed like for 10 days not talking to each other or even say hi though he was in my class and we see each other every single day! I was really mad at him! I kept thinking if I've done anything wrong to him or not! but really I did nothing wrong to him at all!. After 10 days from that or so, he saw me walking with a friend but I didn't look at him. when he crossed us by, my friend ,whom I was walking with, happend to know that guy and tried to say hi to him and then he replied him back by saying hi and before he walks off, my friend continued saying to him like how are you and wut u doing till that guy looked at me and guess what he first told me!!!! he said with a very light intonation, hey squall!!! it's been a long time! where r u I don't see you these days..! and we talked like for 5 minutes and then he went for a class or somthing..I was really shocked!! and confused and I couldn't really know what he meant! hes been seeing me everyday :ugh:!!
    Also, before a week, when I was sitting alone, that guy happened to come and started to look at me , but when I looked at him back, he took his eyes off me quickly!!
    I really don't know why! this is really strange...
    any help from you guys would definitely be appreciated ;)
     
  2. Ivan

    Ivan New Member

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    Uh... Sounds like he has issues or is just playing some game. I don't really know.
     
  3. camarosrool

    camarosrool yes i am

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    is this a no gym for home?
    are you asking if he's gay?
    well all gay guys where rainbow bandannas, so just look for that
    and they also all love Madonna
    if you are asking why he doesn't talk to you then I really don't know, but if you get him to sign up here ill ask him for you
     
  4. Squall

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    Well, I thought about whether hes a gay or not bt I really don't know! do u?
    but u know wut?
    One day, I tested him whether or not he really wants to ever talk to me. when I was going to the library where that guy works there, I saw him standing in the circulation disk talking with two of his friends..I said to my self that since that guy doesn't want to talk to me, then why I should bother my self looking at him or even saying hi to him..but the problem here is when I crossed him by (10 cm in between), he called me!! and then we talked to each other again....!
    I feel like i'm ending my self inside a loop or something [​IMG]
     
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    Naturally Baked Active Member

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    Maybe he's getting the same thing back from you and so thats why he doesnt talk to you....maybe he doesnt wanna be the one initiating conversation all the time...Also people have many friends, so just cus he doesnt come sit by you one day doesnt mean you cant go sit by him unless you get the feeling he gets irritated by you.


    As far as if he's gay or not ill check my gaydar ;)
     
  6. CoCo

    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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    ...sounds like you have a man-crush. Which is perfectly okay.
     
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    but hes a 20 year old (straight) college student
     
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    ya! I dunno how to deal with it...:eek3: hes about to make me gay lol
     
  10. Squall

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    Ya maybe coz I don't initiate conversation with him all the time..

    There is one day I tried to go to him to ask some question, on my way to him, he looked at me and then suddenly turned his face away from me and he was really scared like I'd kick him or sth!
     
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    thats so hot.
     
  12. sholnay

    sholnay New Member

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    just make an effort to talk with him.

    dont ignore him cause the last time you saw him- it appeared like he ignored you.
     
  13. Matitulo

    Matitulo If sexy never left then why is everybody on my shi

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    Straight men don't do this. They say "what the fuck is wrong with you" and move on.

    :ugh:
     
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    lol.
     
  15. cedric

    cedric I don't have a contract

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    and the line has been cast...
     
  16. CoCo

    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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    ...yea, but...
     
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    sholnay New Member

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    he sounds asian right?
     
  18. CoCo

    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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    Squall, what's your ethnic background and what college are you attending? Did this thread initially start in the Closet, or was it moved? I looked at this thread like five times before actually posting, because every comment that I initially made came across as rude, unless you put it into context of actually knowing me. And especially with my understanding that you're a bit sensitive...
     
  19. cedric

    cedric I don't have a contract

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    no idea. I was just insinuating that you're a whore :fawk:
     
  20. Matitulo

    Matitulo If sexy never left then why is everybody on my shi

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    :werd:
     
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    sholnay New Member

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    i believe nova said it best, kettle.
     
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    :slap:

    im a very innocent young man.
     
  23. PhantomGT

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    Some people are bi-polar and have their good days and bad days. Perhaps this guy is. Or maybe he just has a lot on his mind.

    I would just try to be friendly and start a conversation. At school everyone opens their conversation by saying “Hay-WhatAreYouDoin!?!?” It’s kind of blurred together so you have to say it kind of quickly.
    Its easy to open a neutral conversation where yall can find common ground. Sports, Cars, Brewing Beer, or Your last sexual encounter, whatever

    good luck with it
     
  24. Matitulo

    Matitulo If sexy never left then why is everybody on my shi

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    i've heard that before :nono:
     
  25. Matitulo

    Matitulo If sexy never left then why is everybody on my shi

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    I'm guessing you didn't really mean this, but bipolar is something completely different...
     

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