Can' stand my girl, can't live without her! WTF!

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  1. Drowned

    Drowned NameThatPornstar.com

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    I simply cannoootttt stand my girlfriend... we've been together for almost 4 years and she drives me out of my mind... we break up, days later I can't stop thinking about her and that some guy is going to be hitting on her :rofl: She's the same... she hates me but can't live without me... she's calling me a few days later after breaking up... it's like we hate each other but don't want anybody else to have us... wtf do I do???? My head hurts... I just told her right now she's making my life a living hell... I know we'll be back together in a few days... :wtc:

    BTW, sex is great :yum:
     
  2. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Sounds obviously like you have a very unhealthy relationship that is never going to work out in the long run. It's only have worked (technically) for 4 years because you both are dependent on one another and so insecure with yourselves that you are afraid to venture out on your own.

    I'm sure we will all tell you to grow up and move on...but you probably won't listen anyway.
     
  3. sponger235

    sponger235 New Member

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    pwnd. i have friends like this. dont understand
     
  4. ware_ru

    ware_ru I know, I know, I'm amazing

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    learn game
     
  5. Sephiroth13

    Sephiroth13 Beginning of the End

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    When you break up just cut off all contact, its going to be very hard. But you have to prove to yourself that you don't need the other person, once you finally get out of that 'crutch" phase only then will you realize that you can find someone else better out there rather than being in such an unhealthy relationship...

    OH and staying for the sex is definitely not a good idea...
     
  6. Midgetized

    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    Go see a therapist to deal with your dependency issues.
     
  7. SeaMack99

    SeaMack99 OT Supporter

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    PLEASE for the love of god don't have a kid.
     
  8. Jack Horner

    Jack Horner Guest

    Stop being a bitch
     
  9. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :werd: Though I'm sure they'll get married or she'll get knocked up. Both worse case scenarios.
     
  10. krazywulph

    krazywulph Guest

    It's obvious that you're in it for easy sex...

    go out, find a young girl, ravage her, realize it's good...

    I'm in the same boat dude, so I feel ya.
     
  11. SeaMack99

    SeaMack99 OT Supporter

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    I know this situation all too well and it doesn't end well.
     
  12. chlywly

    chlywly Active Member

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    I second this.
     
  13. Viper

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    Stay with her man.
     
  14. HuskiRuski

    HuskiRuski Cardinal Fan

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    i think when you keep coming back to a person after breaking up like that, it means you should probably marry them.
    :ugh:
     
  15. prolifics

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    you guys are afraid of breaking it off because you're both afraid of being alone. this is a common problem in many relationships
     
  16. ww_Crimson

    ww_Crimson New Member

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    It's all already been said. You're just too scared to go find someone else.
     
  17. demosnat

    demosnat New Member

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    Its going to fucking suck for a few months after you break up, and you have to force yourself not to contact her, but you'll both be better in the long run.
    It feels wrong to go without something you've had in your life that long, its natural.
    You know there is no solution here but to end it.
     
  18. Falconer

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    How old are you guys?

    Sounds like you have dependency issues. Don't base your wanting to be with her on your jealousy of not wanting other guys to hit on her (easier said than done, I know).

    Why are you guys breaking up? Does she dump you a lot for little stupid stuff? She craves drama. You can find someone better. Ask yourself if you really want to be in a situation like that.
     
  19. Kirbys Autumn

    Kirbys Autumn Mrs. Kirby McSpic

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    I agree. This is a very unhealthy relationship and both of you have dependy issues. It's time to let the fuck go.
     
  20. DTR rex

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    I was in a relationship like this for years as well.

    You guys really do love one another, but you're both acting in ways that make it impossible for there to be a solid median of understanding and comprimise.
    You break up because you guys are probably very dependent on one another, both probably really jealous and fight constantly about the stupidest things in which you both over-react about.
    You get back together because you two genuinely love one another and miss the other person, you both are afraid of the "big bad world" and having to go at it alone, and you are both jealous.

    Either learn to be more independent and let the relationship and both of you mature, or just end it.

    Even though the ending of my relationship with the mentioned girl was the hardest time of my life, it was such a rewarding experience because it taught me independence, strength, and really allowed me to mature.

    It might be best for you two to end the relationship for 6 months or a year and then start talking again and see where you both are. As long as you two don't jump into other LTR's you'll both grow, mature, and gain independence. It is a wonderful feeling.
     
  21. Project X

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    being insecure = FTL
     
  22. VibraNation

    VibraNation www.VibraNation.com

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    I think you are both in your own comfort zone that is why you keep coming back to each other. Either move on or stay together. No more in between stuff.
     
  23. weezy f.b.

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    im dealing with a very similar issue as we speak...shit sucks bro. there are so many little details that you could never explain to any of us, so our advice is really quite meaningless. if you are unhappy with her then dont be with her. but if you are truly happy with her but simply allow stupid little bullshit to get in the way then you should probably try and stick it out. it sounds really cliche but communicate whatever issues you guys are having and decide whether or not you can get past the problems. if you genuinely hate her (as your original post implies) you just have to let it go...
     
  24. sponger235

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  25. JordanClarkson

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    if you two have never had a normal relationship outside of this one, it sounds like the both of you have some mental issues. breaking up isn't going to help unless you get help as well
     

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