can i get some advice..

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  1. A Cow

    A Cow OT Supporter

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    im going to make this brief becuase my arm feels like it got stabed. so..

    my ex gf somewhat broke up with me ( says if i clean up etc we can get back together ) and ive cleaned up but she refuses to talk to me..

    met someoen i really like ( an aussie ) and she seems to like me.. only problem is she lives in austown..

    now.. ive been looking at werking in austown and i can make 100% more out there than here so i sent in my visa app etc.. ( its also a place ive wanted to live for a loongg time )

    now the question is.. am i stupid for running away from my ex to go with this new person..

    btw.. new girl owns her own house and bussness ( i get to live there rent free but i have to pay for the food.. so i get off cheap )
    her dad is giving me a free car ( its a 07 something decked out with his shops logo all over it for advertisement as a loner )

    shes hot as hell..
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    but am i stupid for running away to somene i dont know nearly as well as my ex-gf and even have the chance of hating in time to come?
     
  2. Kalypso

    Kalypso New Member

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    From what you've told us, new girl is what I'd go with in a heartbeat.
     
  3. Bruticus

    Bruticus half dead OT Supporter

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    I'm of the opinion to never get back with an ex, so the question here is easy. Either you want to move, or you don't. More money, no rent and a new girl, choice is simple to me.
     
  4. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    This all seems way too good to be true....but if it is legit then go man. Do what is going to better your life. Your ex isn't even talking to you, and somehow getting with this new chick will open up all new possibilities.
     
  5. MattThom01

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    why wouldn't you take advantage of an opportunity to better your situation? Because you don't want to leave an area that your ex is in? The ex who won't even speak with you?

    Come on man, this is a no brainer.
     
  6. Omerta6

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    If you've honestly cleaned up and your ex wont talk to you.. then maybe that was a scapegoat she used to end it.

    I think you should go as long as it is legit.
     
  7. BlazinBlazer Guy

    BlazinBlazer Guy Witness to The De-Evolution of Mankind.

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    Your ex is your ex for a reason. This new girl hasn't had a chance to become your ex, so for all you know she never will be your ex (she'll just keep being your current). I say once a girlfriend becomes an ex-girlfriend, she never becomes a girlfriend again. None of this off-again, on-again shit.
     
  8. Think before you leap, this all seems too good to be true.
     
  9. Coottie

    Coottie BOOMER......SOONER OT Supporter

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    :werd:

    When something seems too good to be true, more often than not, it is.
     
  10. ///M Pilot

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    Regardless, if the visa is approved, and there are other benefits to going...

    Why the fuck not?

    I'd recommend not relying on living with her though. That way, the worst case scenario is that things with the new chick don't work out. Whoop-dee-doo. It sounds like a good change of scenery, and might be one you need.
     
  11. lauren

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    met? how did you meet her?

    chances are, you don't even really know her.
     
  12. Ark

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    Honestly I'd go with the new girl like everyone else has said. You may just want to go there for a couple days for a vacation to meet her and make sure its all legit before you jump overboard without a life vest.
     
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    have you accualty met this girl in person? that all sounds too good to be true..another thing are you moving there because you want to, or are you moving there for her? my advice dont move somewhere/change your lifestyle for any girl.

    if u really want to move/change your lifestyle for yourself then do it up!
     
  14. lauren

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    oh, got any normal pictures of her? :hsugh:
     
  15. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Yeah, once I read through everything and saw her supposed pic....It just seemed a little far fetched
     
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    "Yeah I got her some glamour shots done as a present for her 16th birthday"
     
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    Make sure you have an exit plan dude.
     
  18. A Cow

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    well.. 1) i have not met her.. but.. becuase aussies seem to be drawn to me from all parts of slurrey... i had someone acculy go meet her one day.. long story short.. seems legit so far
    2) exit plan.. its austown.. i have right now about 13 people that would take me in a instant.. + im going to apply to a job at 65k - 85k a year before i go.. so if shit hits the fan.. i live out of a buddies basement for a month
    3) thats the only pic i could find right now.. she models a lot of the stuff she has in her store (confirmed via a buddie who ambushed her at werk ) but i do have other pics of her.. but.. i just formated my computer so they are on one of my backups
     
  19. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Yeah...this should go really well...
     

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