SRS Can anybody tell me why suicide is not the answer?

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  1. Pioneer

    Pioneer Are you annoyed? You will be.

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    That's usually the first thing people say "Suicide is not the solution" :squint:
     
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    z31maniac *insert witty remark*

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    Because its the easy way out.

    Man up and deal with what life throws at you, suicide is taking the pussy way out.

    Why miss the rest of the ride?
     
  3. Pioneer

    Pioneer Are you annoyed? You will be.

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    Life hasn't thrown anything at me ... it's just there
     
  4. teo

    teo . => ? => !

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    Eh?
    You haven't made anything of it. Do you expect to lay back and have it handed to you on a silver platter? Get out and DO something with it.
     
  5. Pioneer

    Pioneer Are you annoyed? You will be.

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    And here we have the -- always -- second thing people say.


    There is nothing out there for me. Nobody wants anything to do with me. Even a whore won't bother with me. (you can forget the "Stop worrying about her, there are others" response)
     
  6. Pioneer

    Pioneer Are you annoyed? You will be.

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    So what's wrong with the easy way out? The ride sucks.
     
  7. teo

    teo . => ? => !

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    Oh really? So what you're saying is that you've seen everything there is to see in the world? If that's the case you'd better call up the Guiness Book of World Records and tell them you're God, because no one else can claim such a feat and back it up.

    Have you traveled? Immersed yourself into another culture? Learned another language and used it exclusively to converse with the people around you? These things specifically are good at shifting your paradigms and thinking about things from a completely different point of view, and it sounds like you're in desperate need of this.

    PS - Your poor attitude is the reason you perceive no one as wanting anything to do with you. The honest reality is that you don't know what they think because you haven't asked them, and you're so busy wallowing in your sorrow that you wouldn't listen even if they did tell you.

    A positive outlook draws people to you whereas a negative one repels. Think about it.
     
  8. teo

    teo . => ? => !

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    Maybe because we're right? :hsugh:
     
  9. Cerridwen

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    Well then,if there's nothing out there for you, you don't have any family or relatives that would care blah blah blah just end yourself now and put everybody else out of their misery.
    Nobody wants to be with a whiny unambitious person.
    I sincerely doubt that you have experienced everything in life and seen everything you want to be.
    It truly DOES take getting out there and doing something yourself to be happy. BTW- a good relationship takes making yourself happy first. You can't expect to be able to please anybody else if you can't even please yourself.
    Suicide IS the easy way out. It also affects so much more than just you. You may be ending your own pain but think about all of the pain it would cause all of those around you.
    Good luck with everything in life.
     
  10. Bioanger

    Bioanger Self-Proclaimed moron

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    Putting Down A Suicidal Person Does Not Help Them!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
     
  11. Peyomp

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    You are such a sad, pathetic bastard who does nothing about his situation, who does zero to improve his lot in life... that eventually suicide will be your answer, whether its a good solution or not. You're miserable. You're content to do nothing to help yourself. Therefore you will probably get tired of your misery and end it. And there's nothing anyone here can do about that.

    So quit wasting our time, and go whimper someplace else. You don't want help. You're not interested in curing your depression. You'd rather wallow in it. Do it elsewhere. Thats not what this forum is for.
     
  12. Panoptimist

    Panoptimist Put a bangin' donk on it.

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    Pull the trigger and the nightmare stops!
     
  13. Bioanger

    Bioanger Self-Proclaimed moron

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    No, pull the trigger and the nightmare begins; you might live.
     
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    Bioanger Self-Proclaimed moron

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    Your attitude only makes his situation worse.
     
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    Bioanger Self-Proclaimed moron

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    Unitl you have been in the situation for yourself, you have no idea what you are talking about.
     
  16. Cerridwen

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    I really disagree with that comment. There are lots of things you don't have to personaly live to understand.
    What is his attitude helping (the original poster)? What is he doing for himself? How does he ever expect life to get better if he just sits there and does absolutely nothing?
     
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    Incorrect. The worse thing we can do is coddle him. He's been coming in here with this 'woe is me' act for a long time. He is obviously deeply depressed. He has a disease. He chooses to do nothing about it.

    Coddling him just perpetuates the fucked up bullshit that keeps him from getting help. I won't play the enabler.
     
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    Bioanger Self-Proclaimed moron

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    Bioanger Self-Proclaimed moron

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  23. Bioanger

    Bioanger Self-Proclaimed moron

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    Postpartum derpression is temporary. Clinical depression is not.
     
  24. Cerridwen

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    Temporary lasting for 9 years? :rolleyes: Postpartum depression (severe) often leads into clinical depression.
    Nice try. Try reading my post again ;)
    edit: Bioanger, I'm NOT in here to argue with you. But Pioneer DOES need to see that he needs to seek professional help and start doing something with his life. Nothing will change without effort.
     
  25. Cerridwen

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    Is your mom still around?
     

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