Calling back girls from last night waste of time?

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  1. RebootEnzo

    RebootEnzo New Member

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    Anytime I do bars/clubs and get numbers they never pick up after but I was thinking this girl is different. She started dancing with me and when I went to buy her a drink she offer to chip in. Then the club closed like 15 min later and her friends started doing the your drunk lets go thing. All I know is she was very hot. Really nice too...

    If I do call I highly doubt she will pick up because I am not in her phone. What kind of message should I leave?
     
  2. MattThom01

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    "This is RebootEnzo" from the party last night. My number is XXX-XXX-XXXX. Call me back".
     
  3. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Why place so much importance on just one phone call in your life?

    Call. If she doesn't answer say "Hey, it's ______ from _______. Had a good time, give me a call and we can get together for coffee/drink (or something like that) this week."
     
  4. RebootEnzo

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    I don't know why I care what girls think but I do. Especially in this case :hs:
     
  5. MattThom01

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    well, take 30 seconds to call and leave a message. If she doesn't call back, you're no worse off.
     
  6. RebootEnzo

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    Yeah you are right but the success rate is so low. Out of all the numbers I only got a date twice from it.
     
  7. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Still have nothing to lose :dunno:
     
  8. BlackIce72

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    Not a waste of time, but today will be a a humbling day for a lot of people who thought a spark last night was significant.

    Completely worth it though.
     
  9. MCohen

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    Give it a shot. Calling a girl for the first time is never a waste.
     
  10. antihero

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    don't bring him down. There is 0 downside to making the call. Do it.
     
  11. Dreams2Reality

    Dreams2Reality saywhat

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    For all you know, she'll answer the phone.
     
  12. Falconer

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    Cost: 30 seconds

    Potential downside: you waste 30 seconds

    Potential upside: unlimited.

    Do it.
     
  13. BlackIce72

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    Did you miss one or both of the two times when I mentioned it was worth it?

    I'm not bringing him down.
     
  14. Pringles

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    fuck yes. You have nothing to lose, but a possible mate. Your just to scared to do it and came here for positive reinforcement or justification.

    SO DO IT!
     
  15. Ideotique

    Ideotique Drinking on monday nights does not make me an alco

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    If she doesn't want to be with you then making the phone call will just take 30 seconds out of your life

    If she does, then not making the phone call will mean you won't get laid

    Which option do you prefer?
     
  16. RebootEnzo

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    Well I think it is a shoot down for sure now. I am pretty sure, and it took me all day to figure this out, that it was a girl I know from myspace who has a boyfriend.

    She is a really really nice girl. Fuck... Now I feel awkward and bad about doing all that shit in front of her, friends and more then likely her boyfriend..

    I was so drunk I didn't even know it was her and it was dark. I am such an idiot...
     
  17. GRocks10

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    Why do you even waste your time then asking for the girl(s) number if you never plan on calling them? Thats kind of stupid. What do you really have to lose afterall? if you call and she takes it or calls you back after leaving a message you might end up having the best relationship with this girl in your life but then again if she doesn't what did you really lose? nothing really.. you have everything to gain, and if you don't, in the end you have the confidence to know that atleast ONE you succeeded in getting her number, many MANY guys can't even get the courage to ask such a thing and TWO atleast you gave it a shot...

    Don't make it out to be so much harder when it really isn't.

    Go for it.


    And PS.

    Its probably not the same girl as your comments above who has a bf.. the chances of that are pretty slim with ALL the other clubs around in your area, you're just trying to find excuses.. stop it ya douce canoe, she wouldn't have given you her number in the first place, you and I both know it, she would've told you that she had a bf....
     
  18. Eddie Brock

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  19. Priddo

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    Grow a pair and give her a call anyway.
     
  20. giz

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    yeah, text after a call is bad. but in some situations, a text rather than the original call is best.
     
  21. antihero

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    I don't know where you people got these ideas about sending text messages.

    text messages are GREAT when used properly.

    Something like "hey, i had a great time last night. I'm going to call you when i get out of work" is great. Something like that can really help with the situation because then a girl knows when to expect your call. When you catch people by surprise it doesnt help you at all. Much better to build some anticipation and give the other party a chance to be "ready" instead of flustered when the call comes.
     
  22. antihero

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    yup. was pretty humbling day.

    drunk and dark helps a lot of things that sober and well lit does not. pwned.
     
  23. giz

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    I found that most won't answer their phones the next day, so you are left with an awkward voicemail. Or you can text, which gives them the freedom to answer whenever. Personally, I rarely leave voicemails as I see kinda come off as desperate to me.

    Normally what I would do is text a girl a few minutes after we parted ways, to say nice meeting/sleep tight/whatever. They are MUCH more likely to answer/respond to your next phone call (be it the next day, a few days later, etc)
     
  24. giz

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    didn't read this until I wrote my last reponse. completely agree. :bowdown:
     
  25. giz

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    in that case, I agree with you. texting is no substitute for an actual conversation.
     

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