I'm thinking about calling my grandmother who I haven't spoken to in 10 years. (I'm 19) I always really loved when she came when I was little but around the time my father died her and every other relative disappeared. Anyway, now that I've completely separated myself from my mother I feel like the problem could have been her all along and I'd like to try and call my grandmother. Anyone think this is a bad idea? I want to call I'm just really worried she'll be like, "no, I don't want to talk to you" or something. Tips on what to say?