Callin' bitches...

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  1. Sybian

    Sybian She's with me...

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    Call and leave a message. No return phone call.

    Call again, no answer, no message.

    Give up?
     
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    spirited driver New Member

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    Yes. Well don't "give up", just forget about it for a while, and if she calls you, you're generally in, if not, move on... How long did you wait to call after getting the number, honestly? Remember, everything with girls, and most women, is a fucking game. So play it!
     
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    audrey New Member

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    give up :hs:
     
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    audrey New Member

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    Exactly, if I were her, I would have called back by now.
     
  5. Sybian

    Sybian She's with me...

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    I waited 3 days but to hell with it. I agree with them. Give up.

    How about this scenario. Thursday and Friday night my roomate and I hung out with this really cool chick. I saw her online today so I told her that I had a bottle of Tequila with her name on it (She's a lush). Anyhow, she said that she'd take me up on it. Always moving forward, I asked what she was doing tonight. She said that she didn't know but she had to work early the next day. I probably should have stopped there but I told her that she should come down (we live about 15 minutes apart) and crash here in my guest room. She said that she was cool on tonight but maybe sometime later this week. Thing is, I'm not even really that into her like that. I mean I hit it but I just kinda want to hang out with her because she's good people.

    Persist?
     
  6. Sybian

    Sybian She's with me...

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    Now let me ask you, that being said, why'd she give up the number?
     
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    Sybian She's with me...

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    Meh, sitting at home and getting drunk is all I wanted to do :rofl:. I just said she was invited. I guess I'll holler at her later on though.
     
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    Some girls feel put on the spot when asked for their number. I don't agree with girls giving out their number when they have no intention of answering the call, but some girls do it.

    I mentioned in a thread a while back that I prefer it when guys offer their number, rather than asking for mine. I think it's polite and not so direct. A bunch of girls posted and agreed with my comment. Yail Bloor of disagreed.
     
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    Sybian She's with me...

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    That gives you guys too much power. I agree with him on that one too.
     
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    Sybian She's with me...

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    Yeah, we'll see what happens.
     
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    audrey New Member

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    :rofl:

    Sorry, but that's ridiculous.


    I would rather a girl call me because she wanted to call me, then give me her phone number and not answer my calls.
     
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    Sybian She's with me...

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    Yeah I see where you're coming from, but in this case I get an immediate answer and I'm not sitting around wondering if someone is going to make that call.
     
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    I think that's fun :o
     
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    Sybian She's with me...

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    Haha well then give me your number. ;)
     
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    audrey New Member

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    I meet a guy a while back. I probably wouldn't have given him my number if he had asked... but he offered it to me (I thought that was very polite and sweet and I was impressed) and I called him :o
     
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    You're supposed to say, can I give you my number! :squint:
     
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    Sybian She's with me...

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    Never! Check your PM!
     
  18. Yail Bloor

    Yail Bloor OT Supporter

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    she has low interest in you

    do you want to date a woman who has low interest in you?
     
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    Sybian She's with me...

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    Nope. You're right.
     
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    Did she have a proper chance to generate a greater interest for you?
     
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    Sybian She's with me...

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    Not really, but that brings me back to the original response. If she didn't want to talk to me, she shouldn't have given out the number. I digress. My interest in her really isn't that high either.

    I'm not giving a chick my number so I can be one of the hundred placed in her pocket or cell phone that day. No thanks. Again, that's one situation I feel that I should control.

    Aqua, I thought about the guest room thing too. Might have been a bit forward but whatever.
     
  22. Chip Chipperson

    Chip Chipperson New Member

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    read the other phone thread
     
  23. HouseLing

    HouseLing When masturbations lost its fun you'r fucking lazy

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    see, thats exactly why i like to give out my number instead of getting one. if she calls me, that means she is interested. if she isnt interested she dosent. if on the other hand, she gives me her number, and she isnt interested, i waste time calling her and then thinking about her calling me back. when i give out my number i dont really think about her at all if she dosnt call :dunno:

    its not really a being polite thing in my case, although i am a polite person and it probobly comes off that way, its a lazy/easy/not wasting my time thing :o
     
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    Sybian She's with me...

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    Makes sense.
     
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    qft
     

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