Alrighty, my buddy asked me a question that I didn't really know the answer to so I told him I'd ask my pals at OT. It's not a big deal, just curious for some opinions. OK: He's been bf/gf with a girl for 3 weeks, they "talked" for a month beforehand. He's wondering if when he takes her out on V-day if he should sign the card "love," cause he thinks it would be odd or maybe send a wrong message to just sign his name but then again doesn't want his woman to think he's desperate/rushing, etc. So I suggested just not giving a V-day card and just giving the normal dozen roses and taking her out to dinner. Opinions? Oh yeah, also something I wanted to know, when using condoms with spermicide, how much does the risk of pregnancy go down?