Broke up with the GF last week.. tell me why I should txt her right now...

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  1. YOU MAD

    YOU MAD OT Supporter

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    Have a lot of shit on my mind....

    We agreed this can't work, but it's fucking driving me crazy how this girl went from loving me to fucking completely changing a month later because "I wasn't opening up fast enough"

    We broke up Wednesday (4 days ago), and it was fairly civil. It was odd though because we were both on the phone silent for like a minute after we talked for 30 min about breaking up... and she was like ok, i'll talk to you later..

    I kinda wanna text her and tell her more shit that's on my mind..

    I know this is a bad idea but I really can't help it right now, ha.
     
  2. THoC

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    you want to know why you SHOULD text her?

    this will be a very short thread.

    with the one and only answer being.... DONT!
     
  3. YOU MAD

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    what do I have to lose though?
     
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    depends on your defention of "lose".

    im sure you are probably thinking "im still hurting any way. its not like i have started to heal and me texting her will set me back".

    but in all reality..... since we all know time is the only thing that will help you get over this.... any set back on you communicating will only stretch out the process.


    let me ask you this. what do you have to gain from doing it?
     
  5. YOU MAD

    YOU MAD OT Supporter

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    Honestly, I'm not "hurting"

    I'm just legitimately confused and I also want to sleep with her again....
     
  6. THoC

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    lol, well that changes things.

    sure, go ahead and text her then. not sure if you will get the answers you are looking for to get closure but maybe you can get her to set up a "meet". then you can try to have sex w. her from there.
     
  7. haargerman

    haargerman ayuh.

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    no no no no no no
     
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    LOL... i wanna sleep with her again. text away. Just curious, how long were you two together?
     
  9. YOU MAD

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    5 or 6 months
     
  10. haargerman

    haargerman ayuh.

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    please tell me you didnt text her
     
  11. RichieHemingway

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    This is why I get mistaken as a stoic, brooding type of person.

    I couldn't talk about breaking up for 30 minutes and still have anything to say.
     
  12. Diesel66

    Diesel66 My standards for women is like rent-a-centers stan OT Supporter

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    why ? you dont want to be in a relationship with her. Just sex ? that's fucked up
     
  13. THoC

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    im pretty sure TS has not been in many RS. when i break up w. someone/get broken up with. after a discussion about it there is that awkward moment where your thinking "umm.... ok..... im just gonna go ahead and leave/hang up".

    its pretty normal to eventually have nothing else to say and have to just end the convo.
     
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    :werd:

    That's going to confuse and hurt her if you just use her for sex.
     
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    Don't call. You're not doing her any favors and just being an asshole by doing so if your motive is sex. Go pick up a bar skank for the night or something.

    Also, it doesn't sound like you are hurting or care much... so if that's the case why would you feel the need to "have more to say to her"? If you don't care, then just forget it and move on.
     
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    deep down he does care. his ego was hurt when she broke it off w.o closure. he wants answers.
     
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    I know :)

    I was just testing his statement "I don't care".

    In my experience, when you have more to say to an ex, but contacting her is probably not good for either of you, the best thing to do is write down what you are thinking/want to say. Hand write it, keep it for a few days, read it again and throw it out.
     
  18. peoplescar

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    stop fucking talking to her, you broke up, you admit it can't work, be a depressed emo for 2 weeks and then move along, believe me you will only prolong your suffering if you try contacting her.
     
  19. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :rofl:

    let me guess, you've texted her, haven't you?
     
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    Your dignity. You already lost it in the main. Don't lose it to her too.
     
  21. peoplescar

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    :mamoru:
     

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