Alright, here's the scoop. At the beginning of the semester (edit)I got out of a really sick relationship and had a hard time getting over her (1st gf, maniuplative cunt). Anyway, a friend of mine had a friend that was interested in me, and had been for some time. We started hanging out, but I let her know that I wasn't interested in anything serious whatsoever. At that time (February/March) I honestly didn't find any other girl attractive; I was still tied up in my ex. However as I finally started getting over her I started getting a little more serious: spending more time together, would cuddle on the bed, making out...but nothing farther than making out physically. Anyway, that went on for a few weeks...until this last week that I finally realized that the physical attraction just was never going to come. She's a bigger girl...and while I'm not in the best shape myself... I just was never attracted to her. Last night I ended up staying at her place cuz I didn't have a bus to get back to mine. Slept in the same bed...and I hated it. She wanted to cuddle...I moved away as far as possible. I just did NOT want to. So she called me tonight and I just basically let it out...I was tired and I probably didn't use as much tact as I could...but I basically said that I didn't see anything coming out of her and I...I would still like to be friends, but I can't see anything else happening. The only other thing I guess I should mention is she's from Florida...and a major thing she dealt with earlier in the semester was whether she should stay here at Iowa or go to Florida for school next fall. She eventually decided to stay here...and even though she says it wasn't a reason, I think a major playing piece was me being here. I feel really freakin bad about the whole deal...any advice on what I can do from here? There was apretty tight knit group of friends we had going on (her and I included) and now if nothing else there's going to be tension/drama...my friend who intorduced the two of us is really pissed at me...*shrug* just wait until school gets out in two weeks?