About four weeks ago, he broke up with me (as explained in a thread in the Asylum http://forums.offtopic.com/showthread.php?t=3142976). Unfortunately, we work together, and neither of us are willing to find a new job. However, last night I was informed that, just as I knew would happen, he has replaced me with one of my 'friends' from work who conveniently broke up with her long term boyfriend a week after he broke up with me. Someone that I confided in. Someone the complete opposite of me- petite, extremely popular etc etc, so my confidence has taken a huge hit. I'm not unattractive by any means, or so I'm told, but there's nothing worse than seeing somebody you love happy with someone who is everything you always wanted to be. I just feel so betrayed, that after 3 weeks, the two of them can do this and not give two shits. The absolute worst thing is, I knew myself, and he told me so last night, that I pushed the two of them together, because I thought he could help more than anyone on how to cope with her breakup. I feel like a complete idiot, because I knew it would happen and I've been preparing myself for it to happen. I have a tendency to find it hard to trust anyone, and I feel this is going to set me back to being worse than I ever was. I'm leaving the country for the summer come the first week in June anyway but I really feel so lost. It's really hard for me to let go of him, let go of the past, especially since I work with him and still care an awful lot about him. I know I'll get through it eventually, but I guess I just need some advice on how to cope in the short term.. I have so much to say to them after a sleepless night and I'm just not sure I'm strong enough to be the bigger person and let them make their own mistakes.. I'm sorry if it seems like a long rant/waffle, like I said, not much sleep here. I'd really appreciate any advice anyone has on how to deal with having to be around them for the next 6 weeks..