I've only had to break up once before but it was really easy, I had good reasons to with the physical abuse, pyschotic behaviour, and plans to break into my apt and destroy things. Now I'm dating a girl who's clearly way ahead in what she thinks we are, I'm pretty sure she has the idea we are going to be together forever but I need to drop her asap (without going into details) and I've never had to do it this way before. I want to know if it's a good thing to mention why, obviously if I say "I want to break up with you" she will ask why but all my reasons are flaws with her and to be honest I don't want to hurt her more than I would just have already. Same with me, if she broke up I'd like to know why but, if you think about it more it'll probably be bad sides you don't want to hear. But it would be heartless to just say "Im out, see you!" I've been holding on too long because I care too much about her feelings. Long distance relationship and met online, seen each other twice for like 10 days each time and about 6months in. Can't be fucked with this anymore really.