breaking up with girls

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  1. dontfearthegovt

    dontfearthegovt New Member

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    so im trying to break up with my girlfriend who i am pretty sure is going to start crying and making me feel bad. what is the easiest, most non-emotional way to do it. i hate drama and i dont wanna feel like an asshole.

    any tips?
     
  2. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    There's nothing worse than a guy who is afraid of being "the bad guy." Just suck it up and DO IT
     
  3. MattThom01

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    tell her. Be polite, but clear about it. Then go, otherwise you will get sucked into the emotion and drama afterwards.
     
  4. PocoDiablo

    PocoDiablo New Member

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    Don't do it:

    1. At your house.
    2. In your car
    3. Any place she can stay with you, or otherwise trap you.

    I would do it in front of her house, or at her house, and then leave.

    BEWARE! When she tells you she needs to get her stuff from your house, tell her you'll get it and bring it back. Do NOT spend time with her, as she'll likely try to trick you into getting back together. Evil women. :p Seriously, distance yourself for at *least* a week with NO contact after breaking up.

    And when you break up with a woman, stay broken up.
     
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    StealingBread New Member

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    I'm a woman, and I agree with this. Not all ladies are like this, but yeah.
     
  6. pigeon

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    as yet another female, i agree. too many ex's of mine did NOT follow this advice, allowing for long, drawn out drama and bullshit.

    this is the best advice i've seen re: breaking up
     
  7. RyeLou

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    I hadn't read this before but I too agree with PocoDiablo. I'm coming from the male side but just went through a break-up pretty much exactly how he described a month or two ago. It happened in front of her house which is a good idea. I took all of her stuff over to her and picked mine up at the same time a week or two later. Make sure you don't stay too long and get into any deep conversations about things that were, but be polite and respectful at the same time.
     
  8. TigerWoodsJr

    TigerWoodsJr LSX Elitist Prick

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    Its so hard to break up with women, I hate to hurt them, but it happens. Just be honest, firm and keep it simple like they said and then get away. I just broke up with my gf yesterday, never an easy thing to do.
     
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    kdizzle59 New Member

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    i know this is wrong but it works wit some girls...but u could always act like an asshole so that she wants to break up wit u then she looks like the heartbreaker, and then u dont have to deal wit the emotions. just my opinion... so ladies dont b too mean bout it
     
  10. RyeLou

    RyeLou OT Supporter

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    Worst idea ever. Doing that actually makes you the asshole (and then some) you're 'acting like'
     
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    kdizzle59 New Member

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    like i said it was just an opinion, it has worked once for me. there wasnt any emotions and i am not talkin like hit her and callin her names but more on the lines of showin loss of interest...thats wut i meant to say. then she feels like u want to leave her and possibly break up wit u cuz she doesnt want to be the one that was broken up wit
     
  12. RyeLou

    RyeLou OT Supporter

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    That's still a stupid idea and shouldn't ever be used. Grow a pair and do it yourself.
     
  13. BlazinBlazer Guy

    BlazinBlazer Guy Witness to The De-Evolution of Mankind.

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    I don't take advice from people who are incapable of using standard English. :noes:
     
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    kdizzle59 New Member

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    isnt it called proper english?
     
  15. Bruticus

    Bruticus half dead OT Supporter

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    That's just weak really. Though I did do it in 1 relationship for a while before breaking up with her properly (see Poco's post) as she was insane.

    For most 'normal' cases Poco's is the way to do it.
     
  16. Yail Bloor

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    Be a man. A man is able to deal with the consequences of his actions.

    Of course she will get emotional, that's what women do best.

    Just know in your head that she has gotten emotional thousands of times in her life and it won't hurt her in the long run. She will be fine.

    Depending on the nature of your relationship, you may actually be doing her a favor.

    Also, in most cases the woman expects the man to do the breaking up, so you may be doing something she wants you to do.

    When she gets emotional, don't try to pacify her or tell her everything is okay. Just let her do her thing.
     
  17. sk0rcher

    sk0rcher The universe is watching

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    Meh, i just broke up with my girl yesterday, today really sucked. But i had to do it. Just tell her, she will cry, and leave, and stay away for a while.
     

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