I just had my first session of break-up sex with my ex, that I'd been dating since March of last year (my first LTR). It's kind of bitter sweet. I still have feelings for her and we'll still see each other regularly as friends (with slight benefits, maybe). But, she wouldn't kiss me tonight, and it was no where near the same as it always had been. She met another guy who she's interested in and I just sort of lost her attention I guess. I had been really upset about it, but I'm mellowing myself out and learning to accept it. The kicker is that he's going off to boot camp in 2 weeks anyway, and they'll only see eachother for 2 days out of the next 3 months. Just wanted to share my experience.