I originally posted this in the Vaginarium, but I think it may be more appropriate in this forum??? I'm new here, so not too sure. Basically, I feel confused about my own feelings towards my GF. She IS a great catch (smart, funny, easy to be around and has an incredible social conscious) but like everyone has a few drawbacks (clingy and we don't have too much in common). My problem is that I am not sure if I am "in love" with her enough to marry her. I'm confused about my own feelings because I don't know what if feels like to be in love that much... Am I crazy? Maybe I actually do love her enough? But then, shouldn't I definitely know that inside myself? I mean, I care for her deeply and we're very comfortable together (and as I mentioned, the sex is great). However, when I'm away on business I don't miss her nearly as much as she misses me. I don't feel an intense longing to be with her although I am excited to see her when I get home. Maybe I just love her and am comfortable with her, but am not "In love" with her. If that is the case, I definitely should break up with her. But, I second guess myself all the time. I think to myself that maybe I'd be missing out on the best thing that ever happened to me! On one hand, I know I could probably live have a happy life with her. But, maybe I could have a much better life with someone else? Sometimes I question whether or not I am capable of the sort of deep intense passionate love that seems to exist in movies but which I have not experienced for myself. Maybe I already love her as much as I am capable of loving anyone? All comments/help are appreciated.