We'll OT I've given this my complete thought and I'm curious what you guys have to say about the situation. I've been "dating" one girl since HS. The reason I say dating is that we have been together on and off. Whenever we have broken up it's been her telling me. She has also cheated on my once in which I took her back for it and she has changed believe it or not( I think so at least ). The problem is we recently have just become very distant in that she goes to school in CO and I goto school in CA. I see her on breaks and shit but that isnt enough for me. I'm also very sexy active and she apparently has lost all lust for me once she went on her BC. She used to give me head almost anywhere and swallow and she let me try anal once. Ever since she left for college this all died and changed. She says strong nos to it all and refuses to give me head as it's now "gross." She also smokes a lot which I dont approve of. She also doesn't like me touching her in certain places b/c of her self-esteem IE Face( too many zits ) and her stomach (she doesnt like it). I recently bought her lingerie for xmas in hopes that would spice shit up and make me more attracted and that didnt seem to work. She is pretty into me in the fact that I dont call her anymore. She does all the calling. Id also like to join a frat next quarter in the fact that im pretty bored with my social life right now in college. She doesnt aprove of it. I guess the queston is do I break up with her or not?