and breaking my heart in the process. basically the situation is, we've been on and off and currently live in different states, and now he's made the decision to join up to pay for school. he's convinced he won't be shipped anywhere that would involve him in the war, whereas other people are telling me he's fooling himself. the next four years of his life are pretty much sacresanct, so what do i do? other than wait and see where we are in four years? is anyone aware of how much danger he's actually putting himself in here?