Boyfriend has never came from head

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  1. MichelleLeAnne

    MichelleLeAnne My Bunny's a Carpet Muncher

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    Any advice on how to get my boyfriend to cum from a bj? He says he's never been able to. And I don't think I suck at it - he really seems to enjoy it. (no pun intended)
    Could it be too much stimulation?





    And hunny, if you're reading this... Now you know my secret mission.
     
  2. MissKitty

    MissKitty If squats were easy they'd be called 'Your Mum' OT Supporter

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    For a guy to come from head, in my personal opinion, they need constant stimulation on the same spot. So just as you get uncomfy in one position and go to change, is when he wants you to keep going.

    A guy doesn't need to come from head though.
     
  3. HuskiRuski

    HuskiRuski Cardinal Fan

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    i've never come from head, but i do enjoy it a lot. i think the reason why i don't come is because i love the friction i get from sex and handjobs, and that friction is missing in bjs.
     
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    123yenxtc New Member

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    Keep it wet and keep a steady pace. Use your hands to provide a firm but not tight grip and use your mouth to provide the slippery.

    Try this. When his cock is pretty wet, hold it firmly at the base with one hand and use your dominant hand to work the stroking motion. Put your mouth around just the first 1/4 or 1/3 of his cock and use your hand like an extension of your mouth, following the same stroking rhythm. Just under the head is really sensitive. Tongue it with the sides of your tongue, not the tip (unless he likes more pressure there). Then involve your other hand that was just grasping the base. Use both your hands together, with your lips and mouth, and become one warm, wet, stroking sensation for him.

    It's very hard to make a guy cum with the mouth only. But mouth aided by additional strength of hands will feel great to him.
     
  5. King Ralph

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    Only one girl's ever been able to finish me orally.
     
  6. King Ralph

    King Ralph Active Member

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    Also, when your mouth gets tired, make sure you keep the pace with your hand.
     
  7. fray

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    As said above, don't lose the rhythm. Then it's just a matter of endurance. I think even switching to hand and maintaining the rhythm might retard your progress... all depends on the guy though, I suppose.
     
  8. AlextheDroog

    AlextheDroog Come and get one in the yarbles, if ya have any ya

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    i think you might be on a fruitless mission there...

    IMO most guys don't cum from BJs...I RARELY have the one or two time I actually did i had to think it thru...just bear down and concentrate on a sexy image and make it happen..

    trying to make a guy a cum from a BJ is like trying to make a girl have a vaginal orgasm...
     
  9. sportsjunkie

    sportsjunkie OT Supporter

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    i've been with guys that don't cum from BJ's but then again, they've never been able to
    but they do enjoy the stimulation

    sometimes it's not worth trying for because it's a lost cause :o
     
  10. Falconer

    Falconer OT Supporter

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    I think it's a combo of technique and the guy.

    I've had GFs who could get me to cum very easily from BJs, and I've had GFs who were not so good at it.

    Of course, some guys just aren't that into it. Personally, I love it :big grin:
     
  11. lauren

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    have you had him fuck your throat? like, lay on your back, and have him really pound it?


    it's a start. if he learns what works when hes in total control.... it may be transferable knowledge.
     
  12. lionsgraphics

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    I came only once, but it's a long story.

    However, other than that I never came. I told her to use more hand next time she does it, because as great as she was, that's what was missing.
     
  13. Pringles

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    if you deep throat it's game over. Otherwise your just a child on a tit. I've also come many times from a BJ, it isn't impossible by any means.
     
  14. Abomb

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    News flash: your chick sucks at giving head if you can not cum from it.
     
  15. jackjohnson

    jackjohnson simple as something nobody knows OT Supporter

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    lick his balls.
     
  16. lauren

    lauren Active Member

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    gee, no wonder why girls worry/stress when the guy cant get it up or finish. they suck! :hsugh:
     
  17. NCS

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    its near impossible for me to cum from a bj. my suggestions: make it a full on porno experience. watch some hardcore porn and imitate. not in technique, but in slutty behavoir.
     
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    DTR rex New Member

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    It's all about keeping rhythm and using the hand as well.

    My ex made me blow every single time she did it.
     
  19. antihero

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    :wackit: omfg

    never stop even for a second. if you cant keep going with your mouth your hand should be going. start slow, don't burn out early. sloppy sloppy wet.

    have him stand and you kneel. this provides the best visual, you don't have to support your head as much and you have both hands to work with.

    the porno style handjob with the twist seems to work very well too.
     
  20. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    also, at the very least, you should be able to finish him in your mouth just before he is about to come from a handjob... right?
     
  21. lauren

    lauren Active Member

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    actually thats the hardest for me...awkward height i guess. him in a chair and me on my knees is most comfortable, imo.
    or sex
     
  22. Abomb

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    actually, yes they do.

    ive had girls who spent over 30 minutes with no success on me and others that could get me off in 5-10 minutes every time. :hsugh:
     
  23. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    the idea is to help people who suck at it suck better, not to make them feel worse like you are doing in this thread
     
  24. lauren

    lauren Active Member

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    such sample source! such an empirical and objective data collection! :bowdown:
     
  25. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    look at you being sarcastic :big grin:
     

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