Don't you love my 80s reference? Anyways, I started hanging out with someone local - but she has been taken for 5yrs. No big deal, I have plenty of female friends that are taken. I've always been able to seperate the friendship from the romance, no matter how close I got. It didn't quite workout like that this time We have so much in common, everything just...clicks. No matter what we say to each other, it makes sense. Sometimes we even complete each other's thoughts. Then the whole holiday weekend -- we hung out and it screwed my head big time. Nothing happend physical, but sparks did fly... These feelings linger inside of me, and our romantic talk starts to gain momentum and it just becomes a landslide for me emotionally...I decided to confront her and she said she knew it was coming, but was hoping to avoid it. She loves her BF b/c he would love her no matter what his decision is, but she loves me for the adventure and how I make every little thing seem so exciting. We sort of went to sleep without any real decision having been made -- but I suggested that we stop talking to each other at all, but I don't want to do that. She's such a great friend, but I want to move on. But every inch of me says I'm missing out on something great...I mean, they're not married yet...who is to say that something won't happen and I can be there for her? i know...I have never waited for anyone in my life before. That's why I feel like total crap...For the first time, I feel like I can't move on.