birthday present

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  1. Taker

    Taker 找死吗?

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    what is a good birthday present for a girl that i just got together with??

    her birthday is coming up soon...

    would perfume be offensive?? ( "you smell" )

    also, this is my first relationship........ever :o

    other advice would be appreciated as well :)
     
  2. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    How long have you been dating? Under a month?

    If so, you take her out for dinner and get her a card. That's it.
     
  3. Taker

    Taker 找死吗?

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    we've been going out for maybe 2 months (but very close because we were both in school during winter break) ...we decided to go for it together on MLK day

    ( i picked MLK day so that it will be easy to remember in the future :o )
     
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    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Well still. The thing most people do in relationships is go overboard on things like gifts. You never want to out-do yourself because it can bite you in the ass later in the relationship. However, I don't think a nice perfume you think she loves or will enjoy is a bad idea. As long as it's nothing cliche that you just assume a girl will like I am fine. Never underestimate making a card, even buying one is fine as long as you don't just sign "Love, ____" in it. Heartfelt gifts are always the best.

    Also remember, you've got V-Day next month. Not that I'm saying you have to buy a gift, but I know most guys get sucked into thinking that.
     
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    just dont give em this! lol


    a camera?
     
  6. iwishyouwerebeer

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    Put it this way:

    After barely 2 months together you shouldn't be spending any more than $60 on her.
     
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    give her an orgasm. best bday present imo
     
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    Shit, it's been three years for me and I still don't spend more than $60 on a gift.

    Invest time, not money.
     
  9. Taker

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    her birthday is 2/17 :hs:

    thanks for the advice...we do fun things all the time w/o spending a lot of $$$...i guess i was just compelled to shelling out more since it is her birthday (and my first relationship)... but i will keep in mind to keep thoughtfulness and meanings first

    my struggle in general with anybody is that i always have the need to impress others, i'm trying so hard not to do that with her and just truly be myself as much as possible :hs: yeah i know i'm very insecure guy :o
     
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    Someone should make a thread listing good presents for both sexes and then sticky it.
     
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    That's cool. I was just trying to give him a kind of set idea as to what is way too expensive after dating someone such a small amount of time in the grand scheme of things.

    Ahhh, alright. There's no doubt that you should be excited about your new and first realtionship, just remember to pace yourself and not get too caught up in it. Never ever just shower the girl with gifts. We were talking about this in another thread to a guy who was newly dating a girl an constantly wanting to buy her things. This is a bad idea because:
    * the girl can get very spoiled
    * material gifts just don't matter as much as heartfelt one's
    * the girl can bitch later in the relationship that you no longer buy her things like you used to

    Yep, complaining that you must not care as much anymore. It's pretty common and sad. Anywho, make sure to also read the Valentine's Day gift idea thread

    I did a search and thought there is a lot of gift idea threads it's as if they all just have under 5 posts...If someone wants to make their own list I'll put it in one of the sticky's.
     
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    Falc is good at making lists, maybe he'll do it. lol
     
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    i will respond more thoroughly later, but i have a question before i leave (im at school)

    what are some dates to remember? like one week? ten days? what
     
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    pink ipod shuffle.
     

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