I think my wife is bipolar, perhaps slightly prior to having our twins but it seems much more so now. I threatened divorce last year because of her behavior, and decided to postpone my final judgment for a while once it occurred to me what the problem could be. SHe's on Cymbalta 60 and an anti-anxiety that she uses to be able to get to sleep. It's become a problem because she got lazy and hasn't had the antianxiety in a month or so. How can I approach her getting looked at/treated for this? I don't want to get divorced, I love my wife and kids, it's just that I don't really like her when she's on an extreme. It's either a bummer or really hard to keep up with - and it's never predictable. I just really want my life back. EDIT. Hell of a typo, I was trying to say I want my WIFE back.