SRS BIG, BIG problem, plz help

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  1. nagini_black

    nagini_black New Member

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    okay, I got two best friends. Friend A and friend B. i was going out with friend A until he dumped me two days ago. NOw, friend B asked me out. I said to friend B that I needed to get over friend A but THEN, friend A asked me out again saying that he made a mistake in dumping me like that. Now they both want an answer as soon as possible and are bugging me about it sooooooo much. I don't know what to do! HELP!
     
  2. gjunon

    gjunon OT Supporter

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    go with friend B friend A obviosly does not respect you.
     
  3. nish81

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    SINCE I AM FRIEND A

    I would like to call out this post for a biased, inaccurate description of the events. :rolleyes:
    Two main problems. One, you've said nothing about why I broke up with you, which has a lot to do with this. Two, you don't seem to realise that I don't want to go out with you any more, and I've not bugging you about anything :hsugh:
     
  4. MattThom01

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    Two things...please don't start a scuffle on the message boards.

    Second, to the OP, my advice would be to not date anyone for at least a week after a breakup.
     
  5. nish81

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    I'm not trying to start a scuffle, I just want to make sure that this is shown accurately. Maybe you guys can help us sort out our problems? :dunno: friend B is also on OT

    Oh, and it's actually been more than two days. we broke up two weeks ago, friend B asked her out 4 days later.
     
  6. MattThom01

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    To be blunt...if you guys broke up, who or when she goes out is her business. If she wants to go out with friend B, she can. If she wants to get back with you, it's her choice.

    It's all up to her.
     
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    this rules, haha

    anyways, OP, you got your answer.... "friend A" doesn't want you, so, move on to friend B if you want. no one here knows your feelings, or whats goin on in your head, so, do what you want. we don't know what you want, so no ones gonna be of any help.
     
  8. sublime335

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    wait... i thought he said he doesent want her anymore anyways. you should always give any breakup a little time b4 you decide that it was a mistake to break up. grief and loniliness can make you forget about the reasons u shouldent be together.
     
  9. MattThom01

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    oh yeah, sublime's right. The ex doesn't want to be with you anomore, so your problem is solved.
     
  10. nish81

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    my mistake I guess :hs:
     
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    Coottie BOOMER......SOONER OT Supporter

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    I'm confused...so you broke up with her but really don't want her back but asked her out anyways?? Is that right?
     
  12. sublime335

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    ok, so wait a second. I just noticed that the op only has 8 posts and I became a little curious. were you already a member of OT or did you become a member just so you could post this where friend A and B would see it. If this is some kind of game then you need to talk to them in person and plz leave, if not, maybe try responding to your own thread...
     
  13. SpectraRedZ

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    Wow. Highschool? :hsugh:

    "Friend A" just answered for you, so you can go with Friend B, or neither. With games like this, I dont think Friend B will last very long either.
     
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    i know that i am posting very late but i have to say that i am friend B
     
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    i have always been used by her to get friend A jealous, but even though after what she has done to me I still love her and that wont change (yeah i know i am a real doormat, fool, sap, idiot, pushover etc.....)
     
  16. JustJeff

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    Why are you still calling each other FRIEND A and FRIEND B when we already know who is who...

    And if you guys are going to intrude on her discussion and breathe down her throat the whole time, I would just say fuck both of you and forget about them. As Viper said, just walk away from the situation. It's not worth the drama.
     
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    If you're all friends and OT'ers....don't date each other :eek3:
     
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    i'm pulling for you, friend B!
     
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    do what YOU want to do
     
  20. beanolo

    beanolo It does a body good!!!1

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    why do I have the feeling we won't be seeing the thread poster again.
     
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    This is crazy. And if it's crazy, I would suggest a threesome.

    (Sorry, I gots nothing!)
     
  22. nish81

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    :werd:

    You see?? This is what I keep telling you two! :squint:

    Some people just don't listen...
     
  23. nish81

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    You let yourself be used :hs: So she sees no challenge in you.

    This is what I've done. Tried to do. Succeeded in doing. Partially succeeded in doing? :hs:
     

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