this past weekend has been so rough. my boyfriends mom died kind of unexpectedly from pneumonia complications after refusing to take any medication for it and refusing food. his dad died 2 days before christmas 3 yrs ago in 2003. so now its only him (whos 21), and 2 sisters (17 and 12). this is the worst feeling in the world, bc i was so helpless when his dad died and now i feel even more helpless bc what do you tell someone whos lost both their parents within 3 yrs? how can anyone justify this kind of outcome? my heart is literally breaking bc for 3 and a half yrs, ive seen him go thru some of the best and worst times and this just tops off as something so awful that i cant even imagine the pain and suffering. and the worst part is...i cant make it better.