Best Ways to Escalate Things Physically?

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  1. deleterious

    deleterious OT Supporter

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    a lot of the time when i'm hanging with a girl i'll be funny, witty, have stuff to stay, etc. but i'm still trying to determine whats best to get things physical. any input?
     
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    Savage5point0 Im an asshole.

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    jagermeister, not too much tho.
     
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    MissKitty If squats were easy they'd be called 'Your Mum' OT Supporter

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    kiss her?
     
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    ask if she wants to play naked twister?
     
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    pull your dick out and say "babe, it's not going to suck itself."
     
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    Who Dares Wins.

    Most the game is mental. First, make sure she's interested in you. When she is giving you the right vibe, you gotta take the chance/seize the day

    Lean in for a kiss, 90% you, 10% her.

    If she doesn't take it, then you haven't read her body language and vibe right. You'll feel stupid for half a second, but it's no big deal recover and move on. When you read it right they, it's a very satisfying feeling since you gotta let her take up the last 10%. If you are too scared to just go for it, you can use a cheesy set up. One girl I dated, I said "i've got something i've got to tell you", beckoned her to lean forward, and just planted one on her lips.

    Once you've got the first kiss in, it's just a matter of escalating physical relations. If she's ever not ready, she'll generally let you know via physical clues, so be observant.

    Just remember that as a guy, you're expected to have balls and initiate physicality. I never understood why some guys just expected girls to fall on their dicks.
     
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    You could try holding/touching her arm or shoulder while you talk. I think once you made actual physical contact and you both comfortable it wont feel so awkward any longer like theres a invisible wall between you
     
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    WHOLY CREEPY LOL.. ughh i cant stand my arms being touched lol
     
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    I always liked teasing as a form of escalation.

    And it seems to drive them crazy.

    By "teasing" I mean, leaning in like you are going to kiss her and then reaching up and pretending to pull something out of her hair or something dumb like that. :rofl: Then chuckle and tease her about it.
     
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    Where would you rather I touch you? :mamoru:
     
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    dancing
     
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    d in the v
     
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    knucks Active Member

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    or a.
     
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    :rofl::rofl::rofl:
     
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    or:

    I know it's pretty baby, but I didn't take it out for air.
     
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    I like to start by touching her arm and/or shoulder lightly. Touching on the arm and shoulder are friendly areas that are non-threatening and non-sexual but warms her up to your touch. Once she's used to your touch and doesn't seem to be pulling away, the next spot I try is the small of her back. Many, many women love this area. It's a place that doesn't get touched often. Not too low, you're not trying to grab her ass (yet), and not too high, you're not patting her on the back (friendly). A light touch on the small of her back. If this is all working she will usually start to feel comfortable with your touch and will start to touch you back or stand close to you so she can rub against you (ie. Shoulder to shoulder).

    Another thing I like to do is play the hand slap game. Women love this game. Everyone played it as a kid. I put out my hands palm up and tell her to give me her hands because I want to play a game. Have her place her hands on your hands palm down so your palms are touching, then I just let them sit there and feel the connection. Some girls are smart and know what's coming, some don't. Then you try to slap her hands. It's fun, funny, and flirty, and makes for a good excuse to touch hands. Then when you've had enough of playing the game you can grab her hands, interlock your fingers, or whatever to keep the flirting going. Now that touching is comfortable between you, the next step is going in for a kiss. There are many methods that work and make it easier for a first kiss, but I've already posted too much.
     
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    oh boy :rofl: :kiss:
     
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    Hey it happens. You think a girl is into you and then you start touching her non-sexually and she doesn't want anything to do with you then.
     
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    get her to your room. if she's comfortable on your bed, uns uns uns :rofl:
     
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    It's all about getting her to agree to watch a movie at your place. That's pretty much code for hooking up. Step two is seeing how close she sits to you on the couch.
     
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    the best way in my experience is by getting into a sexual state and leading her into one as well
     
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    m3m750 Kickin' it old school

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    or go for the hat trick.
     
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    touch her within 5 seconds of meeting her
     

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