FRK Best strap-on harness

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  1. LEFTY02

    LEFTY02 New Member

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    well me and the fiance got this one, but it doesnt hold the dong in place very well. and its fallen out a few times with the larger one.
    http://www.extremerestraints.com/the-bend-over-beginner-strap-on-harness-kit_1161.html


    were looking for one that will hold it securely enough that she doesnt have to hold it. but not looking to spend an outrageous amount either.

    we found this one and it looks like it would be a lot sturdier. the dong goes thru the back and the base would be sitting against her pelvis, where as the one we have now just has the O ring and theres a piece of fabric in between her and the base.
    http://www.edenfantasys.com/Product.aspx?pid=19505

    any suggestions?
     
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  2. fuzion1029

    fuzion1029 New Member

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    your SO really enjoys doing that to you? why?
     
  3. LEFTY02

    LEFTY02 New Member

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    if u have to ask u dont belong in FS
     
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    RougeOgre FS Librarian and MOD

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  5. dumb_end_user

    dumb_end_user Sad Gus

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    Have tried and liked this type.

    http://www.vac-u-lock.com/catalog/147/122/Ultra-Harness-2.html

    You have to use compatible "dongs" with this harness but they have them in all sorts of sizes and styles. They do stay in place though. Most of them are "authentic" looking in case that is or is not your thing.

    I have also used the o-ring type and thought that they were marginal, although a trip to the hardware store for the appropriate sized o-ring was all it took to keep things in place.
     
  6. LEFTY02

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    meh, those are too realistic for me. i think were using the wrong O ring. its a tad too big.
     
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    You know I was looking a little more closely at the pictures of that harness you purchased, and it looks like they definitely provide a ring that is not sized for the smaller dildo that comes with it. It also looks as though you could remove the fabric base if she desires that.
     
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    we actually never used the smaller one :mamoru: but it definately has too big of an O ring, cuz she could slip it back in place thru the front. the metal ones look like the way to go.

    she says that the one we have is sorta uncomfortable and that a thong style one would be more comfortable. so i guess im lookin for one of those.
     
  10. Lovely Atlantis

    Lovely Atlantis Luscious Lovely Lady!

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    I was recently looking into a strap on and talked to staff at a few different sex shops. All of them strongly recommended getting a leather harness. They said that it was sturdier and would stay in place even under the weight of the dong. The fabric ones on the other hand tend to bend and collapse when the weight of the dong is attached.
     
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    Now I think you may just be splitting hairs :mamoru: but I do know where you're coming from.
     
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    Oh, I don't think so. I think it can be a valid question. I wouldn't mind hearing too. Everyone's interest is different so I wouldn't mind knowing what her specific appeal of it is.
     
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    Lovely Atlantis Luscious Lovely Lady!

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    yeah that FAQ site is really good.... thanks for the link
     
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    The SO and I use this one.
    It doesn't move around all that much and is tons of fun for her also. You can remove both plugs if you want, but we found that it makes it much less stable. She prefers using it without the anal plug and we've found that it didn't decrease performance that much. One word of advice though, the dildo on it is huge, so you may want to purchase a slightly smaller one if you are a beginner.
     
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    link?
     
  18. RougeOgre

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    click on the words "this one"... the blue color lets you know that is the link (unless you are color blind, in which case you might not notice the color difference) :)
     
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    dumb_end_user Sad Gus

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    That's the same vac-u-lock one that I posted in my first post. Definitely works well, but as stated before the dildos are all "realistic".
     
  20. Dominion

    Dominion I believe you have my stapler.

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    We recommend a leather harness, but although those can be expensive our first harness was one that you can get on most places that is usually called a "Corset harness" it's a purple/black cloth with nylon straps. The trick to that one is to buy extra rings and really cinch the straps down. As long as the dildo isn't 'top heavy' she won't have to hold it, but once she puts it in your ass theres no holding needed (as long as it's tightened)

    But it's really best to buy a leather one if you can afford it, ours is a leather 4 strap with an extra ring set.
     
  21. Lovely Atlantis

    Lovely Atlantis Luscious Lovely Lady!

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    I really liked the look of the corset one, but all the staff I talked to at stores did not recommend it. :(
     
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    Dominion I believe you have my stapler.

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    Yea it's kinda crappy, but a good cheap one.
     
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    Lovely Atlantis Luscious Lovely Lady!

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    it's not even cheap though! They cost the same as the other ones at the stores I went to... around $89
     

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