FRK Best position and lube for IDB?

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  1. BarbaraWaltersPegleg

    BarbaraWaltersPegleg Irish Guido

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    I think the girlfriend is ready for it now and Im wondering whats the best way for her to enjoy it being her first time and whats the best lube also so it doesnt hurt her like crazy?

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  2. Brigante

    Brigante i'm a lurker without an avatar, deal with it

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    well my g/f doesn't let me IDB very often coz she doesnt' want to get "stretched out" back there. but when she does, she feels most comfortable when her knees are closest to her chest. so she can be on her back or on all fours just so long as she brings her knees in she's fine. can't cant go wrong with ky
     
  3. Phantom Empress

    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    If you can afford it, Eros lube. Otherwise, ID Glide or Wet.

    For me doggie style was nice but I liked for him to have control over what was going on. most people will recomend for her to be on top so SHE can control how much goes in how fast.
     
  4. BATMANs

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  5. OneHevnleyAngel

    OneHevnleyAngel New Member

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    i like it from behind with my legs spread but i have to be close to the bed, i hate being on top. And i fully agree with PE Eros is the BEST stuff.
     
  6. psalm

    psalm Thanks niquesuave06 for the AV

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    I agree with OneHevnleyAngel that is a good position for receiving.
     
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    I like it when she reaches back and holds her cheeks for me......but that's purely visual, and just me daydreaming.


    Don't use any of that numbing crap, it may not hurt during thanks to that stuff, but it could hurt afterward.
     
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    Astroglide has been the best I've used-- and doggy is always the best for us when I put it in her butt. :)
     
  9. BarbaraWaltersPegleg

    BarbaraWaltersPegleg Irish Guido

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    Thanks everyone, we'll see in a few weeks :)
     
  10. jigga

    jigga while your gun's raisin, mine is blazin

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    mine like's it best when she's either got her stomach on the bed or in doggystyle... lately though, we've done it with her on her back and her legs up in the air... what a visual! :p
     
  11. psalm

    psalm Thanks niquesuave06 for the AV

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    Oh, and one other thing. If it hurts, you're doing something wrong.. Usually not the case in FS but in the case of anal, it is. :p Unless you're trying to make anal hurt, but then you might as well just say "bitch, bend over" and do her dry ;p
     
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    For some reason Astroglide burnt for me..doggystyle was my fave until we tried the shower...that is now definitely my fave..standing up..leaning against shower wall..butt out :)
     
  13. jigga

    jigga while your gun's raisin, mine is blazin

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    pics? :x:
     
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    MsBehavin New Member

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    Pics of that position? Nah :)
     
  15. jigga

    jigga while your gun's raisin, mine is blazin

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    It was worth the try! :o
     
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    Yail Bloor OT Supporter

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    relaxation is the key
     
  17. psalm

    psalm Thanks niquesuave06 for the AV

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    Astroglide burnt me as well, as did KY liquid. So far the only "lube" besides spit I've found that doesn't hurt is Olive Oil ;) But I haven't tried many.
     
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    I think doggy style with her legs together / knees to chest and laying down with her legs spread works great (and feels amazing)

    Also, KY Liquid works VERY well and easy to clean up. You can do SO much with it
     
  19. Biev

    Biev Guest

    My first time was doggystyle and it went really well. Lots of foreplay first. By the time we started, I was so wet I doubt we even needed any lubricant. It makes it much easier if you start with your tongue. As for lubricant, I've only ever used the water soluble KY. It works fine for us.
    Oh, and saliva ^.^;;
     
  20. AndyB

    AndyB I love you baby Kaitlyn and Dad

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    Flat on her stomach with her legs closed is awesome :bigthumb:
     
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    FallNAngel ...destroyer of threads...

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    Spoon.. lay on your side, him behind you.
     
  22. GraceSlick

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    I say Doggy, being as that was really easy on my girlfriend the first time we did it. After a few times, try experimenting with different positions as she may like them better. My girlfriend actually likes all positions now, riding the rail is her favorite, I guess the ease of tranfser helps :). Nevertheless, take it slow and let her get used to it before trying to really go at it. As for lube, Astroglide doesn't get my vote. Being it felt like it was burning me and overall irritating. On the other hand, KY liquid works great and is easy to clean up, however it seems to lose it's wetness faster than most. But try a few different brands, as some may work better for you.

    Enoy!!!
     
  23. Cherryfire

    Cherryfire "If we believe obsurdities, we shall commit atroci

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    The first couple times I did anal, laying on my side, spooning with him behind me felt way more comfortable. It just felt more natural and I could control the depth better and he could stop when i needed him to without it being awkard and uncomfortable for him too. I could move my body away and toward him, completely controlling the movement and penetration, thus making sure I was comfortable at all times and could stop and "relax" or adjust whenever I needed to.
     
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    omg, I love spooning. We call that sleepysex :) We are gonna have to go try that anal. brb
     
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    mr2chi><0r New Member

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    This position sounds very pleasant :) I think I might fall asleep if I try it though :o
     

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