best friends room mate starts taking EX two weeks after break up, can i hurt him?

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  1. PeterGrave5

    PeterGrave5 New Member

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    we were together for 4 years, had a huge fight and split up in march, but kept sleeping together and then started working on our problems, and had said "we were dating and separated" it was dicussed that we were still to maintain exclusivity (since end of march)... she goes off for a week end two weeks ago, with said roommate of best friend ...with out my knowledge, comes back, avoids me, then calls a couple days later and "breaks up", she had been dating him prior to this call...i confronted my best friend about why she was over there recently, before the "weekend in question" even happened, he lied and covered it up...who am i allowed to hit with a sharp end of a hatchet.
     
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    bot of them

    kick them both the fuck out, and get yourself some new pussy. You'll forget about them in no time.
     
  3. ej25power

    ej25power OT Supporter

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    Is he your friend at all? If not, then suck it up. Being aquainted with someone doesn't call for the no dating ex rule.

    Now, if he's also your friend, break his collar bones and rip off his ears.
     
  4. RedVsBlue

    RedVsBlue Penguins > *

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    why are you pissed at him? I think you are just angry because you found out how much of a tramp the chick was that you spent 4 years of your life with.

    It is not his fault. Move on man.
     
  5. Sionell89

    Sionell89 I grew up when I wasn't looking

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    Why are women who take a better offer considered tramps and ho's? I mean, isn't it more YOUR fault if you don't have enough to offer her? Why should she stick around in a relationship that isn't going anywhere, in spite of 'working on it?'

    Or is it just the fact that you can't admit that she's not chosen 'you' and the only thing you can do to get even is call her names and attempt to ruin her reputation?
     
  6. RedVsBlue

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    Are you that blinded by your furor over my statement that you dont see the reason it was made? She isnt a tramp for leaving...:ugh:

    Just looking to attack someone today? If a guy left you after 4 years, kept the relationship sexual and dragged you along with hope of getting back together, then ran off in secret with someone else you know...you wouldnt be furious?
     
  7. Sionell89

    Sionell89 I grew up when I wasn't looking

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    That certainly didn't come across.

    So you're saying that she should have made a clean break instead of giving him another chance?
     
  8. RoblesGT

    RoblesGT [Track Days: 19 ][Crashes: 1] [SuMo Days: 1 ][Cras OT Supporter

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    stay friends with best friend ... women come and go man ... if anything shoot for a threesome and a hi-5
     
  9. RedVsBlue

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    Then nothing will :hs:
     
  10. Sionell89

    Sionell89 I grew up when I wasn't looking

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    And that piss poor attitude is the reason that so many women leave so many men. At least I was magnanamous enough to say that I didn't catch your point the first time. So, you add insult to injury because you apparently need to feel superior. If you offer an olive branch, the least you can do is take it graciously. Or not say anything at all.
     
  11. maybeitsyou

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    that best friend of yours is no longer a friend. a real friend wouldnt do shit like that. on the other hand, girls will always pull some crap like that.
    quote "all is fair in love and war".
     
  12. RedVsBlue

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    wow :hsugh:
     
  13. Cerridwen

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    It's not his best friend! It's his "best friend's ROOM MATE"
    That being said, she's your ex for a reason. Move on and forget about her ;)
     
  14. BedBunny

    BedBunny Guest

    just move on. fuck her (literally), and spare yourself the drama.
     
  15. PeterGrave5

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    done, moving on...fuck that rebounding bullshit. i can't do it.
     
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    This simply is life telling you that both she and he and losers and you should have nothing to do with them. You should THANK him for opening your eyes to her being a piece of crap.

    Now, move on with your life and find a real woman.
     

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