SRS Being used by women hurts.

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  1. SquiGee

    SquiGee Guest

    Sometimes I hate being used by women. They seem all nice and compassionate on the outside but then they show their true selves later on down the road only to crush your feelings, why god why? :wtc:
     
  2. SquiGee

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    Yeah cross that, I mean all the time :o
     
  3. SquiGee

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    sometimes I imagine myself getting evil anakin skywalker eyes and going on a rampage :o
     
  4. beanolo

    beanolo It does a body good!!!1

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    Being used period sucks. Be it men or women. All you can do is learn from it, to not have history repeat itself.
     
  5. chica&buddies

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    :nono: don't throw this all on women... :squint: i know some men who are users as well.
     
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    Being used sucks period. Not all women are bad, not even most women are bad.

    How, exactly, were you used? If you find it happening over and over and over again, think...what are you doing to encourage this kind of behaviour in women?

    You're the common demoninator here. I'm not busting your balls here, just want you to think a bit, so you can avoid getting hurt in the future.

    Part of avoiding the mousetrap, is seeing the mousetrap, recognizing it, and going around it.
     
  7. PuppyCat

    PuppyCat O.T. Mom

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    I concur.
     
  8. Kinks

    Kinks Sup. OT Supporter

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    I dug myself a hole last time I claimed, to a bunch of women, that both men and women often treat the opposite sex badly. Unfortunately half of them were fortunate enough to be in stable relationships and the other half weren't going to be vocal about it. Recently one of the (single) girls decided she's "given up on men for a while". Welcome to the real world :)
     
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    alexs001 Mawk! Mawk!

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    I would rather be used than ignored completely.
     
  10. chica&buddies

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    :rofl: mmhmm... watch it, mister! ;) don't get me started :p
     
  11. SpeedLaci

    SpeedLaci New Member

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    I completely agree that women can hurt. But when a guy takes advantage of a girl its usually worse because guys have a lovely way of making women dependent on them ..so the girls end up with NADA!
     
  12. SquiGee

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    I really dont know what have caused her to change her mind about me really. I do not reacall saying anything hurtful or anything to cause her to stop talking to me and ignore me. Oh well. :(
     
  13. Keysersozeh

    Keysersozeh The Devil Himself

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    Women can teach us so many things..

    What a great and amazing feeling it is to be loved by one.. :bowdown:

    and how low and empty you can feel when it's gone. :sadwavey:
     
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    Drinking and smoking hurts us too, but we still do it
     
  15. beanolo

    beanolo It does a body good!!!1

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    Not quite the same kind of hurt :)
     
  16. SquiGee

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    :werd: emotional hurt is far worse
     
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    Oh please. Guys who get used are ones that love a girl for years. They get stuck in the friend zone forever and never even get sex.
     
  18. SquiGee

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    fuckin A man that's so true
     
  19. chica&buddies

    chica&buddies Active Member

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    this i know :big grin:
     
  20. pb4life

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    it hurts yeh but it is part of the game. But tell me if you reallt care about her and you knew that it was going to turn out bad a couple months down the road would you end it? I wouldnt cause geting hurt and used it part of life part of growing up my g/f broke up with me 2 weeks ago and now she treats me like shit and to think, i thought i loved her but after i thought about it i am glad it turned out the way it did. Because it made me stronger more prepared for worse things in the future
     

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