FRK Being someone's DOM, but not really...

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  1. DarkAngel19

    DarkAngel19 New Member

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    Okay, I'm sort of new to the DOM/SUB world, so I thought I would ask you all to give me some guidance.

    I had no idea I would be so into being a dom until I met this guy who is a sub and really wanted a dominant woman. We started talking more and more about sex and I called him a 'bitch' at one point and he was hard in like two seconds. I started telling him to do all this stuff and got really into it and we both loved it.

    I have a SO, so I won't really do anything with this guy, but I told him to buy a bunch of stuff that I wanted to use on him. I made him buy:

    A strap-on:
    http://www.extremerestraints.com/stout-feeldoe_1400.html

    A chastity device:
    http://www.extremerestraints.com/stallion-guard_9.html

    A cock-ring:
    http://www.extremerestraints.com/speed-snap-cock-ring_275.html

    My question is... should I go to hell for doing this? I totally will not cheat with this guy, but I made him buy like $150 worth of sex toys? I was fun and I want to use them on him, but I won't.

    Hell?

    DA
     
  2. demosnat

    demosnat New Member

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    I'd say that was an infidelity in its own right. I would be fucking PISSED if i found out my SO had been having chicks by sex toys.
     
  3. DarkAngel19

    DarkAngel19 New Member

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    He's got some ho in Seattle that he talks to the same way. I wrote a thread about it a while ago, but I'm too lazy to go find it:)

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  4. Phantom Empress

    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    it's kind of fucked up that you led this guy on so much that he spent money and is investin ghis time that could be spent finding an ACTUAL top that cares about his well being and is truely interested in being his Dom.... and you knowing you won't do anything with him WHILE also not letting you SO in on this.... Shady as hell... but whatever.. your life..
     
  5. DarkAngel19

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    I know, right? It was all fun and games until he e-mailed me the invoice for the purchase... now I feel awful!

    He can't find someone in the city he lives in to be his Dom, so he wanted me to do it while he looks, or something. It got complicated really fast...

    DA
     
  6. Raybanman

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    If your SO knows your playing with this guy I say ok.
    If your SO does not know,then the devil will come calling.
    I'm also pretty sure there's a diffrence between being a cock
    tease ,and a dom.
     
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  7. Phantom Empress

    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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  8. Takitome

    Takitome New Member

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    I'd say consult your boyfriend when getting ideas like this.

    Why not try being DOM with him? Alot of guys like that.
     
  9. RougeOgre

    RougeOgre FS Librarian and MOD

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    Talk to your SO about being DOM for this guy until he can find one. You can provide him the exqusite torture of denial but still help him out if your SO okays it.
    Sounds like an opportunity for an interesting "3-some" but COMMUNICATION!!!
     
  10. mavfan1

    mavfan1 Active Member

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    YOu would be suprised some of the things that girls who have bf's talk to me about. I would probably not be too pleased if my so was doing this but whatever.

    By the way, I too would pay $150 to have you talk dirty to me...lol
     

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