Ok so the girl has been acting kinda different lately, almost put-off it seems, so i was talking to my friend kevin who is dating her best friend and he was like dude you need to be more aggressive with her, she told ashley(his gf) that you dont initiate much. Ok, so i am the easy going, let whatever happens happen kinda person. When she calls me i just let her talk about whatever, i dont really start my own subjects, whenever we are out i just let her talk and friends bring up subjects to which i will interject occasionally. Thing is, Im not much of a center of attention kinda guy anymore, i used to be real outgoing and such but have settled down and just have a whole "i dont care" attitude, but right now she is apparently getting bored with how ive been lately. Any ways of kinda spicing this up? Getting myself back into the swing of just being out there, and random and fun to be with? I dont want to lose this girl because ive become complacent.