Being more affectionate?

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  1. Bob Dylan

    Bob Dylan is Freewheelin' OT Supporter

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    My girl says I need to be more affectionate with her. I hold her hand all the time, we cuddle, kiss, hug, all that good stuff. Anyone want to give me some help on becoming more affectionate?

    Thanks :)
     
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  3. Cerridwen

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    Why not ask her exactly what she means by that?
     
  4. Vailripper

    Vailripper Daywalkers have feelings too.

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    Do you have a sarcastic personality?

    I kind of have a personality where I make alot of sarcastic comments, and if a chick sucks at sensing sarcasm they can kind of get offended.
     
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    do you only do the stuff in private? maybe she wants more PDA (public display of affection)
     
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    What she probably wants is more emotions - and by that she means she wants you to be more unpreditable, more passionate, more exciting. All the cuddling and stuff is like a little puppy, it gets boring and predictable.

    Why not tie her to the bed - seriously? Do something WILD and different. And don't do everything she says, either, that's a bad move. Kissing her ass is boring and predictable, which is possibly part of the problem as well. ;)
     
  7. MiseryIndex

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    i'm not quite sure it's something you can be told to do. you either are that type of person or want to, or you aren't.

    if you really want to make the effort for her, i commend that. but i'm not sure you can look to others to tell you what to do, or it won't be genuine.
     
  8. foreverLost

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    well.. i say the same thing to my boyfriend. and i guess what i mena is i want him to tell me he loves me, tell me how pretty i am, that kind of stuff. not all physically affactionate. its good to be sensative somtimes when ur not around ur guy friends!
     

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