I was with my ex for over 1 year and she cheated on me with her ex at a party. Now im dating a new girl for about 2 months now, and things are going pretty well. The only problem i have is being able to trust her. For some reason i also keep thinking she is cheating on me for some odd reason, since alot of guys call her etc. She tells me their just her friends which i do believe,but also her ex was calling her alot to. She told me she told him to stop,but i dont know. I dont want to get to off track here,but how long for most of you does it take to trust someone again after being hurt? For me i find it very hard, like im trying to hard to find out if she is cheating, but i didnt ask her that.on her myspace thing it used to say in a relationship and now it says SWINGER,and even something stupid as that got me upset. Im sure she is not doing anytthing, but i cant get it out of my head. She is a very attractive and kinda flirty girl, but i just assume things to much. Also since she is 20 and im 24, were kinda at 2 different parts of our life. I like her alot,but she seems to like to party alot etc, and i cant do these things because of a demanding job schedule/finishing school. For some reason i just feel like she should be with someone more her type, but i dont know why she stays with me.