Been talking to this girl....

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  1. Achmiel

    Achmiel Why do we feel it's necessary to yak about bullshi

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    Here's what's going on:
    Went out on a date last Monday. Had a great time. Conversation was effortless. Kissed at the end of the date, etc. Been chatting here and there on the phone. Was supposed to go out w/ her last Friday. Call her on Friday and she postpones till Sunday. Call Sunday, leave message. She calls back and says she'll call me when she's done w/ whatever. Never calls back. Text her yesterday evening and we get on the convo of doing things while driving. Her last text to me said "I can do lots of things while driving except give roadhead". So I reply: "That's why I'll drive ;)". Never got a text back :wtc:

    Did I fail the shit-test or what?
     
  2. XaPU!M

    XaPU!M Active Member

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    How many times does someone have to flake on you before your self respect kicks in?
     
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    Vysion New Member

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    I wouldn't say you failed... but this chick sounds very flaky...
     
  4. Achmiel

    Achmiel Why do we feel it's necessary to yak about bullshi

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    :werd:

    I'm a big boy, I can handle it, you know?

    But, I'm gonna give her one more chance - and if I don't hear back - I'm done wasting my time. I swear it sucks being single until BS like this happens. At least when I'm not talking to anyone, I can't be disappointed :hs:
     
  5. XaPU!M

    XaPU!M Active Member

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    In a perfect world.



    She probably likes the attention, so why would she force him to stop?
     
  6. Vysion

    Vysion New Member

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    Women don't communicate directly like that.
     
  7. forgotmyname

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    Agreed. It happened to me too. Called her, set a date, date went really smooth, kissed her by the end, told her we should do it again, and she agreed. Never heard back from her.
     
  8. XaPU!M

    XaPU!M Active Member

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    :uh:

    If you ever want to see her again do NOT contact her again until she contacts you first. And if she doesn't then forget about her.
     
  9. Achmiel

    Achmiel Why do we feel it's necessary to yak about bullshi

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    Got it. I'm still learning the intricacies of women :hs:
     
  10. Drifter87

    Drifter87 Yippi-kay-ay, Motherfucker

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    I would have gave up after she canceled the second time. I would let her call me, because if she wants to see me, she will make the time.
     
  11. Sure why not?

    Sure why not? New Member

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    If the girl flakes after the first date I just say something back like, "well, nice knowin ya."

    She's not worth my time, but I usually let them know.
     
  12. wait*what

    wait*what OT Supporter

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    flaky girls FTL.
    you're probably 1 of the other guys she has on back burner bro.
     
  13. vodkacollins

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  14. jonno

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    very true
     
  15. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Sucks. Let her come to you at this point (if she does).

    Quit with the texting this early into "courting" a woman BTW, bad habit this early on.
     
  16. zatotheck

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    I hate girls like this. This has happened to me recently. All this does is make me want to treat women like shit and have no respect for them.
     
  17. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    you'll probably get a call back
     
  18. Kdanzig

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    I agree, leave it be and see if she ever responds
     
  19. giz

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    swear to god I started a conversation with "oh look, another delusion, overtanned oompa-loompa jizzfairy. I didn't realize crack whores came in the color orange these days" a few weeks ago and this girl won't quit trying to talk to me anymore :rofl::wtf:

    not my normal self, but I was in one of those bitter moods and wanted to see what I could get away with... apparently quite a bit
     
  20. ripcurl

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    she likes someone else.

    drop her until she comes crawling back.
     
  21. antihero

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    you seriously came up with oompa loompa on the fly? lol
     
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  23. giz

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    yeah :rofl: she looked like a walking tangerine. she's cleaned up a bit since then

    [​IMG]
     
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    Not worth chasing at this point. Just let it go. If she wants to see you, she'll contact you. Stop wasting your time.
     
  25. Achmiel

    Achmiel Why do we feel it's necessary to yak about bullshi

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    Update: After listening to OTs advice - she actually called me this morning :)

    We might meet up this weekend - I pretty much told her what I'm doing and told her she's more than welcome to come hang out... We'll see what happens...
     

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