Alright, I'm about to buy a new tongue ring, online. (from tonguestud.com, please let me know if theres a better place out there that is more secure) Anyways.. what I've noticed is the ball kinda goes into the bottom of my tongue, and I'm often pushing it out. Not a great feeling. I'm wondering what I could do to fix this? Larger gauge? Larger ball (dont really want one since it wont feel great).. maybe something flat? If you can even do that... What do the body mods people suggest? http://tonguestud.com/item.php?item=01LABGWBL&mode=size I'm going to buy that, I think. What length/gauge/ball diameter would you suggest? I prefer smaller balls.