How do you get over your baggage? My past two, and only two, relationships ended suddenly. I thought everything was going great because thats what I was led to believe. Then all of a sudden they announce they don't love me like that anymore. This past relationship I was afraid to rock the boat. I would bring things up that I didn't like but I would let them go without saying no, we need to fix this, because I didn't want her to suddenly break up with me. I would let her win arguments, mainly because she wouldn't give up until she did(She is like that with her friends too), because I didn't want her to be mad and break up with me. How do I get over this? How do I stop thinking like that?