i was raised in a small religious town of bout 6000 people. I leave and go to college and get my left ear pierced with a 14gauge hoop. Everyone, even my mother agrees it looks great on me. My dad on the otherhand calls me a faggot... said i had about 20 min to take it out before he would forcably take it out. He gets a plyers and pins me against the wall and takes it to my ear. If i wasnt a wrestler i would have had a turn out earing. I know he is all 'set in his ways' but how twisted is this that he gets so violent and calls me a pussy whenever he gets the chance. My dad was like my hero my entire life and was a great role model until this happened... Ive wated to get more done but yea, i really dont want my dad to disown me all together. Anyone have any similar situations? how did they get resolved?