Awesome FML about cheating...

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  1. J_75

    J_75 New Member

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    I don't know why, but I love FML*, and saw an awesome one about cheating today:
    Not that it needs to be said again, but...one of the best ways to tell if a woman is cheating on you is for her to accuse you of it for no apparent reason.

    Putting you on the defensive to cover up their whoreshiness...I fucking love women :rofl:





    *FML = Fuck My Life....a site where people anonymously post short, twitter-type sentences about how they hate their life.
     
  2. Vysion

    Vysion New Member

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    If you don't tend to a woman's emotional needs she will cheat on you.
     
  3. Vysion

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    I've seen men do the same thing. It's not just women that do this.
     
  4. J_75

    J_75 New Member

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    If a person is going to cheat, they'll justify it however they can.
     
  5. Vysion

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    Agreed... but don't give them reason to cheat and there is nothing to worry about.
     
  6. Vysion

    Vysion New Member

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    And sometimes people just cheat because they get bored.
     
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    J_75 New Member

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    uh.....ok.....you wanna pick one or the other? :ugh:
     
  8. MCohen

    MCohen #NotMyPresident #AmericaIsAlreadyGreat #GoSolar OT Supporter

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    People don't randomly cheat. When you're in love with someone and getting all your needs fulfilled, being with someone else never even crosses your mind.
     
  9. Vysion

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    I pick both... allowing yourself to get into a daily or weekly routine of the same things will make women become bored of their relationships. You've got to constantly be doing new exciting things. Women who have said they were the happiest in thier relationships have said it was because they always were doing something new and exciting with their SO's.
     
  10. OniMinion

    OniMinion ...recalls when this forum was actually about cars OT Supporter

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    It is interesting to note that in most instances where infidelities occur, the cheater typically sleeps with someone that is "less attractive" (albeit subjective) than their significant other...

    Which kinda goes to show it isn't necessarily about sex, but something else missing.

    To respond to the WTF post, I would hypothesize that she justified her actions since she probably felt he was already "cheating" on her - whether emotionally or physically. Hence their two hour conversation.
     
  11. MCohen

    MCohen #NotMyPresident #AmericaIsAlreadyGreat #GoSolar OT Supporter

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    You're incorrect. No relationship is going to be full of constantly exciting events.
     
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    it pains me greatly to agree with you
     
  13. Falconer

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    Maybe the less attractive chick is willing to go ass to mouth and the SO won't do anal :dunno:

    FWIW, the only FB i've had was less attractive than all my GFs. I started fucking her after a relationship ended and our sex life had been non-existant for a while (I lost interest in her and the sex). My FB was very "enthusiastic" in bed, so it's what I needed.
     
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    :rofl::bowdown:
     
  15. Falconer

    Falconer OT Supporter

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    I believe women typically cheat for emotional reasons and men typically cheat for sexual reasons.

    The only time I've ever had the desire to cheat was when I wasn't satisfied sexually.
     
  16. Alaya

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    :werd:

    That's not to say there's not exciting events in them, but it's not going to be constant. Plus, there's something great about the comfort of the familiar as well. I think it has to be a trade-off - not constantly doing the same thing, but also seeing the good in the comfortable/usual stuff. There will always be patterns that happen naturally in relationships, that's just what happens with you're with someone long-term. It's a matter of making sure you interject new, fun stuff on a regular basis, but not constantly.
     
  17. Lucky Penny

    Lucky Penny Mr. cut me some slack cause I don't wanna go back,

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    :rofl::rofl::rofl: You really think you have any control over whether or not your partner cheats??
     
  18. Abomb

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  19. Deborah

    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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    I cheated with my ex in my dreams last night and with other people in many other nights, my SO cheats on me in my dreams too sometimes, does that count?:big grin:
     
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    Agreed. There is only so much you can do to keep things super exciting all the time. You can find activities and things to do but the relationship isn't going to feel brand new for years and years.
     
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    You're correct. That's why so many women cheat on their men.
     
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    You can't stop them from cheating, but you can keep them interested enough so they don't think about cheating on you.
     
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    Don't hurt yourself trying to understand. :squint:
     
  24. Alaya

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    Seriously, you're insane, or never been in a serious LTR if you think things can be new and exciting constantly [key word: constantly]. Not to mention, there's also something really great about the "regular" stuff. I loved the fact that Patrick and I used to have 'set' tv night every week to watch our favorite shows, that's just what we did. I loved that every Tuesday we went to the same bar with our friends for $2 pint night, etc. etc. etc.

    And I think anyone that's been in a serious LTR will agree that some of the 'regular' shit is awesome.
     
  25. Deborah

    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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    yeah sure, but it does not mean that it is awesome when everything is just regular shit!

    I agree with what vysion is trying to say, keeping it exciting is very important if you don't want your partner to think about how it would be like to be other guys!
     

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