Avoiding the friendzone

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  1. pelf

    pelf The Juice Was Worth The Squeeze

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    Avoiding the friendzone without being a dick.

    Discuss.
     
  2. Socrates

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    You'll get much better responses if you would say something along the lines of "What do you guys think some good ways to avoid getting in the friendzone without being a dick?" rather than telling us what to do.
     
  3. bandwagon

    bandwagon Copy/Paste

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    'Friendzone' is such a bandwagon around here lately. It's not even really an issue if you just take action instead of being a pussy.

    Want to stay out of the friendzone? Try to kiss her! For top seducers, the average amount of time that it takes to go from meeting them to a lay is around 7 hours (not necessarily all at once). Kissing? about 5-10 minutes. Personally, I always would shoot for a kiss within an hour.
     
  4. Midgetized

    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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  5. ArthurPewty

    ArthurPewty New Member

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    Is the friendzone near the g spot? If so, I'm sure I couldn't even find it, much less give anyone advice as to how to avoid it.
     
  6. RyeLou

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    haha, you're so new it's awesome.
     
  7. ArthurPewty

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    What? Is it near the butt?
     
  8. Miss Red

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    Or you could just grow one and kiss and see what happens...ya know..just throwin it out there..
     
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    kdizzle59 New Member

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    i totally agree. if you are hesitant and you get nervous, the girl is going to place you in the friend zone just because she doesnt think you are interested. dont be scared. the worst she is going to do is pull away and say no. WOW it is called rejection. its going to happen all through life with girls or jobs. suck it up, flirt, make the girl feel like your interested, move in and kiss.
     
  10. hyukki

    hyukki ._.

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    Oh damn! NEVER thought of it that way. :bowdown: Thanks for the advice. :mamoru:

    It seems like I'm newer... so does it make me awesome-r?! :rofl:
     
  11. One Ton Soup

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    Damn, how are you guys so lame?

    You can get any girl you want in this world if you tried. The key word is tried. You'll win some and lose some, but if the girl really likes you, you'll fall back into the friendzone anyways. So why not give it a shot?

    Take her out to the movies or dinner, flirt, compliment her. Out of no where rub her back or hug her or be like "you are so beautiful...but I'm sure you already knew that" and just play coy.

    Girls like the simple things and after a few attempts you'll feel if there is chemistry or not. Go for a kiss when you say good-night or something man...just something.

    Worst case she goes, "i really just want to be friends." Ok...now fuck her sister. :hsd:
     
  12. MCohen

    MCohen #NotMyPresident #AmericaIsAlreadyGreat #GoSolar OT Supporter

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  13. xinster

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    that was good, arthur
     
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    Personally I think guys get friendzoned way too often because they have low standards and do not properly qualify women before trying to date them.

    Case in point: Went to a Halloween party Saturday. Chick wearing a Daisy Duke outfit, lots of skin, above average cuteness. After talking to her for less than 30 seconds I completely disqualified her. She was a control freak, rude, elitist, had three guys in tow who were kissing her ass, and she actually slapped one of them in the face in front of everyone.

    I took the three guys aside and gave them a quick lesson in finding quality women. You all need to do the same. I meet tons of women, and eliminate 99% of them within moments.

    Raise your standards.
     
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    roffle! :rofl::rofl:
     
  16. OoOlAlA

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    Oh gosh..I am tired of this friend zone junk. I wish they wouldnt have made that movie.
     
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    Toda Party .....

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    Talk about lame :mamoru:
     
  18. R.Kelly

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    :rofl::rofl::rofl: holy shit thats fucking awesome!
     
  19. xinster

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    aww man did you have to pwn him that hard
     
  20. skitcy

    skitcy uhm title! ok

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    There should be no such thing as a friend zone.. if she says she wants to just be friends..it's time to find new women. Not be a friend.
     

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